Gold Pile Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 I met up with a nun that is trying to help with some issues. Unlike the 1st time, I was able to fully explain my game of projecting wealth to attract and bed women that are on the prowl for wealthy men. That was the hard part, my voice was a whisper and my face red (again). She took it well, and continued to treat me with respect. We talked about many things, most urgent in her book was the recent emotional hurt I caused to a lady. (A Hispanic woman I recently slept with) She thought it would be better for both parties if I relayed my feelings to her. What I didn't expect was the vast education and interests this nun has. We talked about many unrelated interests. She and I have much in common (no offense to her ) and it makes it really easy to open up to her. I'm stubborn, but I feel she will talk me out of my GP games. I'm already doubting the whole thing. I didn't present her with a gift, as planned, but I will. Next week she is doing some outreach charity work in the inner city. During our meeting 2 people called in to say they couldn't go with her. She said others had cancelled too, but she was going to go ahead with it. Like a jerk, I said I would go. I have no sympathy for those that won't help themselves, but I didn't like the idea of her dealing with hard people without some sort of protection. This is and odd time for GP, nuns and charity work! A month ago I never dreamed it possible.
JS17 Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 Good for you GP. I sincerely hope you prove all of us wrong. Keep up the good work.
Author Gold Pile Posted October 15, 2005 Author Posted October 15, 2005 Good for you GP. I sincerely hope you prove all of us wrong. Keep up the good work. Thanks, but that "prove us all wrong" kinda hurt. I'm not w/out a few supporters here:(
Outcast Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 I have no sympathy for those that won't help themselves, I think you'll find that you are suffering from serious misconceptions about the nature of poverty.
Author Gold Pile Posted October 15, 2005 Author Posted October 15, 2005 I think you'll find that you are suffering from serious misconceptions about the nature of poverty. I will stay open to that possibility outcast. I have known people who milk the system dry. But maybe there are others in true need....I'll see.
HotCaliGirl Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 (A Hispanic woman I recently slept with) Hello GP, I'm curious as to why you continuously refer to the duped woman's ethnicity, implying hispanic women are naive to fall for your deception... I don't see people around here posting 'I slept with a "white" woman'... what is your point as far as her hispanic nature is concerned? Also, you have to start living true to yourself. If you are trying to put a stop to your "GP ways", then you have to also put a stop to doing things you don't want or believe in - if you don't believe in helping inner city people, (despite my opinion of whether or not that is right), you shouldn't go with the nun just to try to win her over and continue getting assistance from her. You have to be more truthful towards people. If I was doing charity, I wouldn't want someone to coome along not knowing they didn't believe in the cause and had other intentions. You are living a false life. You want people to like you for someone you're not, maybe you don't like yourself and think you'd rather date women who prefer a different type of person, trying to project wealth and attracting shallow people, then when they find out you're a phony, you still give the girl flowers trying to work things out. Just seems messed up... The solution is to be yourself, and if it takes a nun to convince you of this, then you should give her an envelope full of money as compensation. not a little vase of flowers or whatever...it's only fair that you not take advantage of others and compensate others according to the time and effort they put into your life.
Author Gold Pile Posted October 15, 2005 Author Posted October 15, 2005 I'm curious as to why you continuously refer to the duped woman's ethnicity, implying hispanic women are naive to fall for your deception You have a point. I told of a couple of conquests and someone posted that she had trouble keeping track of my "victims", so I started identifying them, that one by ethnicity. Actually I find Hispanic women less naive. you shouldn't go with the nun just to try to win her over and continue getting assistance from her. Not trying to win her over, her assistance is available to all (even me ) It was just a protective reaction. Not my worst quality. should give her an envelope full of money as compensation You trying to my accountant a heart attack?!?! Envelopes full of money are reserved for crooks. A flower gift would be OK now, but later her (then) time and effort will be due a more appreciative gift.
HotCaliGirl Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 You trying to my accountant a heart attack?!?! Envelopes full of money are reserved for crooks. A flower gift would be OK now, but later her (then) time and effort will be due a more appreciative gift. Ok, but don't hold back about the gift-giving...I tip big and give to others, and hate it when people hold back, especially when it's something they really owe someone for getting something out of them...You're right not to give too much too soon, otherwise for all we know, she'll continue assisting you with the intention or hope of continuing to get gifts or money from you...nuns are human too and to be human is to have faults and not always the purest of intentions...
jen_jen_heartbroken Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 I will stay open to that possibility outcast. I have known people who milk the system dry. But maybe there are others in true need....I'll see. Keep your mind on the children who are born into poverty. They didn't choose their fate, and they (and their families) can use a hand-up to break the cycle of poverty so that they don't carry it into adulthood. If those children are presented with the same opportunities as their middle and upper class peers, then they have a very good chance for success. The key to ending poverty is to invest in our children.
Author Gold Pile Posted October 16, 2005 Author Posted October 16, 2005 Thanks J-J, This charity biz is just a minor side issue. In all honesty the issue is about me, the people I may have or potentially will hurt....or not. A debate on charity for the poor and if they deserve it, is not for this thread. I only mentioned it in saying I was doing it to be protective of the nun. Not a bad quality is it?
hooghie Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 If I was doing charity, I wouldn't want someone to coome along not knowing they didn't believe in the cause and had other intentions. I have to disagree. I would love to bring someone who didn't believe in a cause and to show them my point of view and perhaps teach them something and possibly help them become a better person.
whichwayisup Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 GP, that's great! I'm glad things went well and it's cool that you clicked with her. That will make talking to her so much easier for you and I think she will be having a huge effect on you and your life... Nice of you to help her with the charity stuff too, the reason behind it is the right one and that's a good thing. She is helping you out, so why not help her?
flamingjune Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 Goldpile might not agree with the nun on the charity issue, but I think it's nice that he wants to go with her because he "didn't like the idea of her dealing with hard people without some sort of protection." Besides, you never know, she might just hit the right buttons and convert him to a true philanthropist. And he shouldn't feel obligated to pay her or give her presents. She willingly offered to help him, and if he feels inclined to present a gift that's great, but he shouldn't have to feel that it's necessary. It's part of her mission to give counseling. The fact that he's even willing to discuss his whole money/dating strategy and that he has a conscience about it is a good sign.
RecordProducer Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 That was the hard part, my voice was a whisper and my face red (again). She took it well, and continued to treat me with respect. You mean she didn't give you the bitchy, judgmental, moralistic crap that you are used to getting on LS? What I didn't expect was the vast education and interests this nun has. We talked about many unrelated interests. She and I have much in common (no offense to her ) and it makes it really easy to open up to her. I didn't present her with a gift, as planned, but I will. Like a jerk, I said I would go.I didn't like the idea of her dealing with hard people without some sort of protection. Do I smell GP falling for a nun? This is and odd time for GP, nuns and charity work! A month ago I never dreamed it possible. Fate? When you go there with her, I bet sex will happen! :lmao:
Author Gold Pile Posted October 16, 2005 Author Posted October 16, 2005 I'm not used to so much positive feedback:o Thank You all, but don't be pre-mature, I'm worth doubting still:confused: When you go there with her, I bet sex will happen! No, no, no no! Even if I were such creep (I'm not) She would certainly have better taste.
Outcast Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 When you go there with her, I bet sex will happen Tacky, tacky, tacky
RecordProducer Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 I'm not used to so much positive feedback:o Thank You all, but don't be pre-mature, I'm worth doubting still:confused: Why do you think we would love you more if you're a saint? You're not allowed to be better than us! (Those with "normal" sense of humor, if you don't get this, please back off! ) My comment about the sex was not pre-mature (you wish! ), but rather... immature? No, no, no no! Even if I were such creep (I'm not) She would certainly have better taste. I am sure you'll let us know if any tasting happens?
jen_jen_heartbroken Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 Tacky, tacky, tacky I completely agree. I am sure you'll let us know if any tasting happens? And yet, even more irreverent commentary continues.
Author Gold Pile Posted October 16, 2005 Author Posted October 16, 2005 How often do Outcast, Jen Jen, and GP agree on something??? I do enjoy RP's wit, even when it lashes me. But nun-GP jokes really make me feel like a creepy animal. I am not an animal, I am a man.
UnGorb Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 Watch your back! even as many of the residents have their window tinted BMWs, they will not take a shine to your BWM Goldy.
Author Gold Pile Posted October 17, 2005 Author Posted October 17, 2005 I can't get the word "irreverent" to come out without sounding like Vin Deisel on drugs
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