Author Jimmy4 Posted February 16, 2021 Author Posted February 16, 2021 19 minutes ago, elaine567 said: Truth is you timed out at 25. Your appeal to women was gone and apart a few ONSs you got nowhere... Why was that? Now you are fantasising about this young woman. This will go nowhere too I guess. You need to analyse your actions and how you relate to women or maybe people in general. Who at 36 really asks their boss if they can seduce their 20 yr old daughter? It is inappropriate. Not sure why you can't see that? Do you mean that I'll live with my past memories for the rest of my life (I talk about my sexual activity)? No I can't believe it, I'm 36 not 76, for God's shake, you are talking with a "sex addicted" (I don't know if this is positive or negative, but I adore this part of my character). Sexy young girls is the best way for a man like me to have fun.
elaine567 Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 49 minutes ago, Jimmy4 said: Sexy young girls is the best way for a man like me to have fun. Ok, but sexy young women are not without agency and they will choose who they want to be with and most of them will be attracted to the beautiful guy you were in your early twenties, not the guy you are at 36. Why wouldn't they be? 1
Wiseman2 Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 3 hours ago, Jimmy4 said: ,I've studied economics in famous universities .My salary is really high I have big house, good car, I also play guitar magazines wanted me for model I'm considered as successful Put all this bragging on a dating app. It's better than daydreaming about the bosses daughter. 2 1
Author Jimmy4 Posted February 16, 2021 Author Posted February 16, 2021 13 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: Put all this bragging on a dating app. It's better than daydreaming about the bosses daughter. No bragging my friend. You may be better than me, I just want to show you that I'm not just a lonely and "dead in the water" man who is looking for girls to do it. I've accoplished many things in my life (and continue to accoplish) and I deserve this kind of enjoyment.
lana-banana Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 (edited) The world is actually full of young women who are happy to have short-term flings with older men, especially handsome ones. I am sure if you spent some time on a few apps you could find literal dozens who would gladly entertain you for a bit and who have the added benefit of not being your boss's daughter. The latter part is the kicker. I don't care how pretty she is, you don't need your boss thinking about his family in relation to your job performance. There is no quick fling that's worth potentially setting your career on fire. Get over it. Edited February 16, 2021 by lana-banana 2
ExpatInItaly Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 When I was a 20-year-old girl, men at your age were "old" to me. 2
smackie9 Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 If you are so that and a bag of chips, and have alllllll this experience as a ladies man, then you should have np hooking up with this girl or any girl of that age group. Why ask us? it doesn't make any sense. 4
HiCrunchy Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 yeah, like when she was 16 years old, you were 32...... 1
Author Jimmy4 Posted February 16, 2021 Author Posted February 16, 2021 2 hours ago, smackie9 said: If you are so that and a bag of chips, and have alllllll this experience as a ladies man, then you should have np hooking up with this girl or any girl of that age group. Why ask us? it doesn't make any sense. bruh, of course it makes sense. All the other relationships I had in the past were when I was young (18-25). From when I came to London I just had one night stands, not short relationships. Now I'm 36 and she is 20 and find it very difficult after so many to start again something more "serious" with such a young girl
LivingWaterPlease Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 (edited) 17 hours ago, dramafreezone said: It would never happen because he wouldn't have to pursue her, she would pursue him. I'm just saying the age is not the mitigating factor, it's the attraction level to that person. Attraction level overrides everything. Brad Pitt is just one example. He's just a template for an attractive and famous older man. I call BS that a 20 year old woman would find it creepy that a 40 year old man that's extremely rich and famous AND THAT THEY FIND ATTRACTIVE came on to them. Not buying it for a second. Poor judgement that sticks out like a sore thumb is very unattractive in a man of any age. It's just not cool. This is the boss's daughter. Her dad must have enough on the ball to be the boss. If she takes after him she's going to notice his poor judgement in going after the boss's daughter. The level of poor judgment he's showing is also going to manifest in other ways that will be a turn off. Add to that the age factor. We don't know how he looks but those two things disqualify him for the bosses' daughter.. If he's cute he might find some young airheads who'll date him. But, probably the boss's daughter has more on the ball than that. Unless the boss has a bimbo wife (doubtful but could happen) and his daughter takes after the wife. Edited February 16, 2021 by LivingWaterPlease 3
Wiseman2 Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 7 hours ago, Jimmy4 said: I deserve this kind of enjoyment. Fine. Get your own GF who is not the boss's daughter . 2
Author Jimmy4 Posted February 16, 2021 Author Posted February 16, 2021 5 hours ago, lana-banana said: The world is actually full of young women who are happy to have short-term flings with older men, especially handsome ones. I am sure if you spent some time on a few apps you could find literal dozens who would gladly entertain you for a bit and who have the added benefit of not being your boss's daughter. The latter part is the kicker. I don't care how pretty she is, you don't need your boss thinking about his family in relation to your job performance. There is no quick fling that's worth potentially setting your career on fire. Get over it. If I don't have a crash with this girl, I'll try this way. But I think that I can try to do at least the first step, you never know.
Author Jimmy4 Posted February 16, 2021 Author Posted February 16, 2021 50 minutes ago, LivingWaterPlease said: Poor judgement that sticks out like a sore thumb is very unattractive in a man of any age. It's just not cool. This is the boss's daughter. Her dad must have enough on the ball to be the boss. If she takes after him she's going to notice his poor judgement in going after the boss's daughter. The level of poor judgment he's showing is also going to manifest in other ways that will be a turn off. Add to that the age factor. We don't know how he looks but those two things disqualify him for the bosses' daughter.. If he's cute he might find some young airheads who'll date him. But, probably the boss's daughter has more on the ball than that. Unless the boss has a bimbo wife (doubtful but could happen) and his daughter takes after the wife. No the boss is a very good person, I liked him from my first day at the company. He is not the type of a serious man who wants his staff to afraid of him. He is very funny, kind, but the most important he want us consider him us a friend and that's something that helped me to do my job with more willingness and made me feel that I work in a very comfortable inveronment (my job isn't easy and the job environment plays very important role). I think he is the perfect boss and the right man for this job. He promised that I'll become something like "co-boss" if I continue going so well (he is very pleased from my good job), and I'm confident too. The last time I worked as a model was before 3 years I suppose, that means that fashion modeling people believe I'm attractive, that's also very important. But really man? do you believe that I'm airhead because I want young girlfriends for fun? many guys like that, and many girls too, others are in the opposide side, no problem. But you can't call me like that, and that I have poor judgment. That's prejudice!!!
Calmandfocused Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 People who are “funny, kind, and not serious” can change in an instant when the integrity of a family member is at stake. Think of how a male Lion behaves when their pride is under threat. That’s potentially how a father will behave If a man brazenly uses his daughter for sex. You won’t get your promotion dude. More likely you’ll be out on your ear, with no job, and your reputation in tatters. 2
BaileyB Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 20 minutes ago, Jimmy4 said: But you can't call me like that, and that I have poor judgment. That's prejudice!!! It’s not prejudice, it’s fact. Pursing the boss’ daughter for fun and sex is not a wise decision. It’s poor judgment. Do what you will, best you leave the boss’ 20 year old daughter alone if you value your employment. Full stop. 1
basil67 Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 On 2/16/2021 at 6:15 AM, Jimmy4 said: [my boss] just said that he can't help me but he won't have any problem if I started relationship with her. Your boss said that he wouldn't mind if you started a relationship with her. I suggest you have another discussion with your boss. But this time, but honest about how you view yourself, the reason you want to do this and what you expect the time spent with his daughter to be like. 1
Author Jimmy4 Posted February 16, 2021 Author Posted February 16, 2021 1 hour ago, BaileyB said: It’s not prejudice, it’s fact. Pursing the boss’ daughter for fun and sex is not a wise decision. It’s poor judgment. Do what you will, best you leave the boss’ 20 year old daughter alone if you value your employment. Full stop. the other guy also said that the girls who may want relationship with me are airhead. Why? because I said that I don't want a family. Where's the problem?
basil67 Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 @Jimmy4 I'm wondering how we can help you. You have a plan and the boss says it's fine. But instead of acting on it, you're talking about it. Do you need reassurance or something? 3
basil67 Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 23 minutes ago, Jimmy4 said: the other guy also said that the girls who may want relationship with me are airhead. Why? because I said that I don't want a family. Where's the problem? Why do you care what they say?
smackie9 Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 (edited) How you do it? You ask her out on a date. It takes a girl a millisecond to know if she's gonna have anything to do with you. There are no magic words or movements that will help you, the decision is all hers. And ya no matter what, she might just be one of those who are not interested in some 36 year old. Edited February 16, 2021 by smackie9
LivingWaterPlease Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 52 minutes ago, Jimmy4 said: the other guy also said that the girls who may want relationship with me are airhead. Why? because I said that I don't want a family. Where's the problem? It's because a young woman who is hit on by her dad's employee is not going to take you up on it unless she's an airhead (doesn't have good judgement). Most other twenty-year-old women are not going to want to date a 36-year-old man unless the woman can't get guys her own age or is an airhead. There are exceptions to this rule, I know, but I'd say they're few and far between. A woman of substance who is 20 years old isn't going to be interested in a man of your age unless she has some kind of desire for older men (possibly daddy issues, but not always) to start with. You're being offered the future of what sounds as if it's almost a partnership here. Don't ruin it. For what? You can find someone to party with who is not the bosses' daughter. Think, man!
Trail Blazer Posted February 17, 2021 Posted February 17, 2021 On 2/16/2021 at 7:52 AM, Jimmy4 said: Don't make me sad I want to have relationships with girls that are 20-25(30 maximum). This young beauty is what attracts me most, you can't find it in a woman who is around in my age. I remind you that I don't want to have family in the future, when I was younger I used to be a "play boy" (parties and sex with 2-3 college girls at the shame time, good old times). Also I was very beautiful back then, I worked as a fashion model for a while. So I think that the girl will find me very attractive too, the famous actor Jason Statham (I'm a big fan of him) has a wife 21 years younger, that is more difficult than just having a simple relationship for a while. I don't want boring and mature (and possibly not attractive) 35 years old women. I want sexy, funny and "immature" young girls that want to "party" with their lifes. I find it curious that you think women in their mid-late thirties are "over the hill" in the looks department. My girlfriend is 37 and looks ten years younger than she is. As a recent University grad, she was hit on by guys ten years her junior right throughout college because they thought she was their age. Each to their own, bro. If you want young, immature girls, go for it. But to suggest that women in their mid-thirties are not as beautiful as women in their early twenties is, quite frankly, ridiculous. 1
Trail Blazer Posted February 17, 2021 Posted February 17, 2021 On 2/16/2021 at 6:46 AM, Calmandfocused said: Jim be very careful. You are trying to cross boundaries here that are taboo. Never place your employment or relationship with your boss at risk for the sake of dating one woman. Especially a woman who you just want “fun and sex” with. Also (and I’m not saying this to be unkind, I don’t mean it to be) why would a 20 year old woman want to date a man whose nearly twice her age and who works for her dad? Not an attractive prospect from her perspective. There are billions of women on the planet, choose one of them instead. Leave this one be is my advice. I agree with not $h!tt!ng where you eat, but there are probably reasons why a young woman might want to date a guy in his mid-late thirties. I do not think that it's in OP's best interests to pursue this relationship, given that it's the boss' daughter and all. However, should OP find himself in a position where he can pursue a relationship with a young woman where he's in no danger of jeopardizing his career, then I say go for it.
Author Jimmy4 Posted February 17, 2021 Author Posted February 17, 2021 15 hours ago, Trail Blazer said: I agree with not $h!tt!ng where you eat, but there are probably reasons why a young woman might want to date a guy in his mid-late thirties. I do not think that it's in OP's best interests to pursue this relationship, given that it's the boss' daughter and all. However, should OP find himself in a position where he can pursue a relationship with a young woman where he's in no danger of jeopardizing his career, then I say go for it. Ι think you are very lucky then. But for the other 90% of the women it's a fact that lose their beauty after their middle 30s.
Author Jimmy4 Posted February 17, 2021 Author Posted February 17, 2021 In conclusion, most of you think that is high risk to go with the boss's daughter. Ok, your opinion begins to make sense to me, maybe you are right then. I'll think about it more seriously and I'll tell you tomorrow. But I really want to thank you for spending your time by trying to gimme an advice!!! I wish you to spent your time with the people you love and have a happy life, and I also hope to return to our daily lifes soon!
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