winny Posted February 17, 2021 Posted February 17, 2021 28 minutes ago, BaileyB said: It was my first post on loveshack - the guy was asking me out and we had been out several times - but no kiss. I had no idea what to make of it... I had several people who told me to end it, we were in the dreaded friend zone... but, I knew we were not because he kept asking me out! Turns out, he says he wasn’t sure that I was interested. Men! I know now that he is terrible at picking up subtle signs... But - five years later, we are living together and all is well. It’s agony, waiting and wondering. But it’s sweet agony. Enjoy the experience and don’t be a fair to give him hints... Guys like this are better than those who are all over you on date 1.
dramafreezone Posted February 18, 2021 Posted February 18, 2021 (edited) On 2/16/2021 at 9:20 PM, BaileyB said: It was my first post on loveshack - the guy was asking me out and we had been out several times - but no kiss. I had no idea what to make of it... I had several people who told me to end it, we were in the dreaded friend zone... but, I knew we were not because he kept asking me out! Turns out, he says he wasn’t sure that I was interested. Men! I know now that he is terrible at picking up subtle signs... But - five years later, we are living together and all is well. It’s agony, waiting and wondering. But it’s sweet agony. Enjoy the experience and don’t be a fair to give him hints... It's weird. Obviously on here there's a strong anti F-boy/playboy sentiment, but those are the guys most likely to go for the kiss. When a woman finds a guy that may be holding back because he's taking her feelings into account, it's seen as weird or that something's wrong with him. Can't win on here sometimes. I've never heard of a guy going out with a woman multiple times because it's a platonic thing. Edited February 18, 2021 by dramafreezone
DaddyDom Posted February 19, 2021 Posted February 19, 2021 He sounds like he has a confidence problem. He's too scared to kiss you and meanwhile is having to stay in contact with you daily just to try and get himself to work up the nerve. I think the best thing you can do is ask yourself what sort of guy you want to date. Do you want to be in a situation where you have to initiate and lead? Or do you want a guy who leads and makes you feel desired? Some women these days like submissive men and want to be on top. So is that what you want? 1
Alpacalia Posted February 19, 2021 Posted February 19, 2021 We're also in the middle of a pandemic. That could account for the hesitation too. 2
Author Spicydicey449 Posted February 19, 2021 Author Posted February 19, 2021 1 hour ago, Alpaca said: We're also in the middle of a pandemic. That could account for the hesitation too. Very true. Though we are both vaccinated and live alone
Author Spicydicey449 Posted February 19, 2021 Author Posted February 19, 2021 3 hours ago, DaddyDom said: He sounds like he has a confidence problem. He's too scared to kiss you and meanwhile is having to stay in contact with you daily just to try and get himself to work up the nerve. I think the best thing you can do is ask yourself what sort of guy you want to date. Do you want to be in a situation where you have to initiate and lead? Or do you want a guy who leads and makes you feel desired? Some women these days like submissive men and want to be on top. So is that what you want? I definitely am okay with taking it slow if he is interested and this thread has been validating
Alpacalia Posted February 19, 2021 Posted February 19, 2021 10 minutes ago, Spicydicey449 said: Very true. Though we are both vaccinated and live alone Okay, scratch that then. Ask him if he likes fishy faces.
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