Author Britney25 Posted February 16, 2021 Author Posted February 16, 2021 2 minutes ago, Gaeta said: player... Ugh my intuition was correct all along even thou I gave him the benefit of the doubt.
sushiandtacos Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 I wouldn't necessarily label him "player" yet... but he's getting warmer 3
Gaeta Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 I did give him the benefit of the doubt but had I known an information like you just gave us it would have me switch my opinion earlier.
Gaeta Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 So I think we're all getting in favor of opening the cage door and let the gnome free. @poppyfields: Good call, you saw his game pretty early. 1 1
Author Britney25 Posted February 16, 2021 Author Posted February 16, 2021 1 minute ago, Gaeta said: So I think we're all getting in favor of opening the cage door and let the gnome free. @poppyfields: Good call, you saw his game pretty early. So this explains why he's so passive now that I'm actually wanting to meet with him?
Author Britney25 Posted February 16, 2021 Author Posted February 16, 2021 4 minutes ago, Gaeta said: I did give him the benefit of the doubt but had I known an information like you just gave us it would have me switch my opinion earlier. So should I just ignore his text when he does message me?
Author Britney25 Posted February 16, 2021 Author Posted February 16, 2021 Just now, sushiandtacos said: How old is he OP? 35
sushiandtacos Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 Do you know anything about his previous relationships?
Gaeta Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 Just now, Britney25 said: 35 Oh god, no no no no, I though you were in your 20s. At that age a man knows exactly what he is doing !! 3
sushiandtacos Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 1 minute ago, Gaeta said: Oh god, no no no no, I though you were in your 20s. At that age a man knows exactly what he is doing !! EXACTLY lol 1
Gaeta Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 2 minutes ago, Britney25 said: So should I just ignore his text when he does message me? Do you really like him or it's your ego wanting his attention? I know how it is, been there, I don't want you but I want you to want me type of thing women pull at times. 3
basil67 Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 (edited) 6 minutes ago, Britney25 said: So this explains why he's so passive now that I'm actually wanting to meet with him? Not necessarily. There would be countless potential reasons why he's slow to get back to you. Anything from him juggling too many women at one time....to him being very laid back....to him simply not being into you. When he sent you that 10pm Valentines message, my thought was that his actual Valentines date had just ended and he was able to text you. But all we can do is guess. The only thing we know is that for whatever reason, he's not meeting your needs. Edited February 16, 2021 by basil67 4
winny Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 (edited) 16 minutes ago, Britney25 said: On the second date he did mention that I should check out his place. That he has a great view. I'm invited. I thought that was odd this early. yellow flag! Edited February 16, 2021 by winny 1
Author Britney25 Posted February 16, 2021 Author Posted February 16, 2021 4 minutes ago, sushiandtacos said: Do you know anything about his previous relationships? Unfortunately no
Author Britney25 Posted February 16, 2021 Author Posted February 16, 2021 2 minutes ago, Gaeta said: Do you really like him or it's your ego wanting his attention? I know how it is, been there, I don't want you but I want you to want me type of thing women pull at times. Yes it is my ego. I don't really like him like him yet anyway . I open to going out with him again .
Author Britney25 Posted February 16, 2021 Author Posted February 16, 2021 5 minutes ago, Gaeta said: Oh god, no no no no, I though you were in your 20s. At that age a man knows exactly what he is doing !! Yes I am in my 20s. I really though he is interested in me thou.
basil67 Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 Why are you open to going out with him again when dating him causes you so much anxiety? You're currently the author of your own woes. 1
Gaeta Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 @Britney25 Don't wait on him. A young Russian lady in New York City you have half New Yorkers males willing to go out with you. Don't settle for mediocrity. 1
Gaeta Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 2 minutes ago, Britney25 said: Yes I am in my 20s. I really though he is interested in me thou. How did he show his interest? Because in this thread you kept on saying he doesn't appear interested.
Author Britney25 Posted February 16, 2021 Author Posted February 16, 2021 3 minutes ago, basil67 said: Why are you open to going out with him again when dating him causes you so much anxiety? You're currently the author of your own woes. My ego I guess ha!
Author Britney25 Posted February 16, 2021 Author Posted February 16, 2021 Just now, Gaeta said: How did he show his interest? Because in this thread you kept on saying he doesn't appear interested. With him chasing me and how he was on the date.
Author Britney25 Posted February 16, 2021 Author Posted February 16, 2021 8 minutes ago, winny said: yellow flag! Ugh hes probably wanting to do netflix and chill with me now
Gaeta Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 Just now, Britney25 said: With him chasing me and how he was on the date. But he is not chasing you. How was he on your date?
poppyfields Posted February 16, 2021 Posted February 16, 2021 (edited) 14 minutes ago, basil67 said: Not necessarily. There would be countless potential reasons why he's slow to get back to you. Anything from him juggling too many women at one time....to him being very laid back....to him simply not being into you. Agree with the two bolded. Laid back? Nah, even laid back men know how to respond to a text message when interested. And let's not forget it's possible he's compliance testing, like I suggested earlier. But who the hell knows, is he really worth all this angst Brit? Edited February 16, 2021 by poppyfields 2
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