Author Britney25 Posted February 15, 2021 Author Posted February 15, 2021 (edited) 13 minutes ago, poppyfields said: How do you figure when Brit was the last to text? I really don't think that matters though, I think if she wants to send a text, she should. Wrong or right, I probably would even if I were the last one to text. I've double texted, heck I have triple texted when I am really into a guy. Not that I would advise that (triple texting lol) but imo this "who texted last" game is a bit silly, if you want to text, just text, forget the "rules." JMO! Ok so I reacted to his facebook stories about the photo he took of the ocean that I loved it. He immediately just replied "me too" with emojis . And nothing more. Ha! Edited February 15, 2021 by Britney25
Author Britney25 Posted February 15, 2021 Author Posted February 15, 2021 1 minute ago, Gaeta said: Maybe he's just an idiot ..... I think I got my answer lmao 2
basil67 Posted February 15, 2021 Posted February 15, 2021 (edited) In the US, would it be customary for a guy to send a Valentine to a woman he's only dated twice? Edited February 15, 2021 by basil67 clarity
Author Britney25 Posted February 15, 2021 Author Posted February 15, 2021 (edited) 2 minutes ago, basil67 said: In the US, would it be customary for a guy to send one to a woman he's only dated twice? Hmm I don't know the answer to that but I received a happy valentines day DM from strangers on social media today. So why is it so hard for him to text me that? Edited February 15, 2021 by Britney25 1
poppyfields Posted February 15, 2021 Posted February 15, 2021 7 minutes ago, Gaeta said: Maybe he's just an idiot ..... Best post of the entire thread!! LOL 1
basil67 Posted February 15, 2021 Posted February 15, 2021 3 minutes ago, Britney25 said: Hmm I don't know the answer to that but I received a happy valentines day DM from strangers on social media today. So why is it so hard for him to text me that? Again, I don't know the custom in the US, but I'm guessing a Valentine from stranger is meaningless, but one from a guy who's dated you twice is open to misinterpretation. 4
poppyfields Posted February 15, 2021 Posted February 15, 2021 3 minutes ago, basil67 said: Again, I don't know the custom in the US, but I'm guessing a Valentine from stranger is meaningless, but one from a guy who's dated you twice is open to misinterpretation. I am curious what that misinterpretation would be. That he likes her? That he's interested in her more than a friend? That he would like to take her out again? Isn't that precisely what this holiday means and is for? To express our romantic interest in someone? Although for many, it's a holiday, a chance to connect with each other. Either way, I find it odd he hasn't but yet posts emojis to her reaction to his FB story. I think Gaeta has it right - maybe he's just an idiot.
basil67 Posted February 15, 2021 Posted February 15, 2021 I don't know precisely what this holiday means, hence me stating that I don't know the custom in the US However, it's only been two dates, and like the OP, he may be unsure whether or not he does have any romantic interest. He wouldn't want to signal it romance if he's not there yet, would he? 1
Author Britney25 Posted February 15, 2021 Author Posted February 15, 2021 (edited) Omg he just texted Happy Valentines Day love! He said he was super busy this weekend with work. Edited February 15, 2021 by Britney25 3
Gaeta Posted February 15, 2021 Posted February 15, 2021 (edited) 35 minutes ago, Britney25 said: Ok so I reacted to his facebook stories about the photo he took of the ocean that I loved it. He immediately just replied "me too" with emojis . And nothing more. Ha! I'm losing faith in this guy. I took his defense for pages and pages and he's disappointing me now. Ok faith is back on !!!!! Edited February 15, 2021 by Gaeta 1
Author Britney25 Posted February 15, 2021 Author Posted February 15, 2021 Just now, Gaeta said: I'm losing faith in this guy. I took his defense for pages and pages and he's disappointing me now. He just texted Happy Valentines Day love with kiss emojis. 3 1
Gaeta Posted February 15, 2021 Posted February 15, 2021 (edited) 2 minutes ago, Britney25 said: He just texted Happy Valentines Day love with kiss emojis. What time is it where you are?? See, he was waiting to hear from you!!! Edited February 15, 2021 by Gaeta
Author Britney25 Posted February 15, 2021 Author Posted February 15, 2021 1 minute ago, Gaeta said: What time is it where you are?? See, he was waiting to hear from you!!! Its 10PM. I'm in NYC. I cant believe he waited for me. Like wtf?
Gaeta Posted February 15, 2021 Posted February 15, 2021 2 minutes ago, Britney25 said: Its 10PM. I'm in NYC. I cant believe he waited for me. Like wtf? My theory is he initiated texting twice after your date. He was hoping you'd initiate to confirm you're still interested. Now he will contact you for a third date. I'm sure of it. 2
sushiandtacos Posted February 15, 2021 Posted February 15, 2021 58 minutes ago, basil67 said: In the US, would it be customary for a guy to send a Valentine to a woman he's only dated twice? No lmao most hide away on that day especially in the beginning stages 3
poppyfields Posted February 15, 2021 Posted February 15, 2021 1 hour ago, Britney25 said: He just texted Happy Valentines Day love with kiss emojis. Oh lord what a mind flip! lol I am happy you heard from him! I am convinced this guy has an angle, he knows what he's doing!
Author Britney25 Posted February 15, 2021 Author Posted February 15, 2021 44 minutes ago, sushiandtacos said: No lmao most hide away on that day especially in the beginning stages So I guess he's not most lol 1
Author Britney25 Posted February 15, 2021 Author Posted February 15, 2021 Just now, poppyfields said: Oh lord what a mind flip! lol I am happy you heard from him! I am convinced this guy has an angle, he knows what he's doing! He added that he was busy at work supposedly. 1
poppyfields Posted February 15, 2021 Posted February 15, 2021 1 hour ago, Britney25 said: He just texted Happy Valentines Day love with kiss emojis. Did you text him back?
Author Britney25 Posted February 15, 2021 Author Posted February 15, 2021 17 minutes ago, poppyfields said: Did you text him back? Yes I did 1
LivingWaterPlease Posted February 15, 2021 Posted February 15, 2021 1 hour ago, sushiandtacos said: No lmao most hide away on that day especially in the beginning stages Yep........ 1
Acacia98 Posted February 15, 2021 Posted February 15, 2021 4 hours ago, Gaeta said: Thursday he paid for the date He text her after the date that night Friday he initiated texting He's just waiting for OP to initiate communication, it's her turn. It's not a game, it's just human to wish for a return. This has been my impression all along. 4 hours ago, poppyfields said: Gaeta, Britney just posted she was the last one to text - goodnight. So if we're gonna play that game, the ball is in his court. Being the last one to text "Goodnight" doesn't mean anything unless she was the one who initiated that conversation in the first place. If she never initiates conversations, that can make a guy take a step back, especially a guy who has previously been in a one-sided relationship. 2
Acacia98 Posted February 15, 2021 Posted February 15, 2021 3 hours ago, Britney25 said: Hmm I don't know the answer to that but I received a happy valentines day DM from strangers on social media today. So why is it so hard for him to text me that? It's different. For someone who doesn't know you, there's nothing at stake. For someone who likes you and is dating you but isn't sure about your feelings for him or vice versa and doesn't know how you'd interpret Valentine's Day greetings, there may be something at stake. 2
winny Posted February 15, 2021 Posted February 15, 2021 4 hours ago, Britney25 said: Hmm I don't know the answer to that but I received a happy valentines day DM from strangers on social media today. So why is it so hard for him to text me that? He didn’t want to. Thats why he didn’t. A lot of people don’t care about silly stuff like Valentine’s day (i am one of them) LOL
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