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I can go thirty minutes to a hour without freaking out and spamming my girlfriend. When I’m around her I don’t have to be all over her. I can be without her I can go through my day only texting her a couple times. But she can’t she says it’s because she loves me more what should I do. She also tells me how much she loves me and how she needs me. But when I’m with her I don’t really talk about those things until she brings them up what should I do.

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How long you've been dating?

She sounds like a typical case of Emotional Dependency. Knowing how long you've been dating would help. 

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I had a look at your history and I think you're realizing although it was fun at first this relationship has run its course. You jumped into this relationship 2 months after breaking up with your ex? and your current girlfriend was your rebound. A rebound is someone who makes you feel good and in love again but then it wares off very fast as it's not genuine, it's just a coping mechanism to not deal the real hurt, in your case your breakup. 

Do you both a favor and end this. You need to heal from your ex before you're ready to be a genuine boyfriend to someone else. 

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53 minutes ago, Gaeta said:

How long you've been dating?

She sounds like a typical case of Emotional Dependency. Knowing how long you've been dating would help. 

Getting ready to be 3 months me and my ex haven’t been together for 7 I’m way over her 

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January 12, that's 3 weeks ago you started a thread about your ex being on your mind. Instead of rejecting the idea you may not have mourn your last relationship properly why not look into it and be honest with yourself. 

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18 minutes ago, Gaeta said:

January 12, that's 3 weeks ago you started a thread about your ex being on your mind. Instead of rejecting the idea you may not have mourn your last relationship properly why not look into it and be honest with yourself. 

I realized that my kind can wonder it’s ok if my ex comes to mind I went through that possibility for about three weeks 

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Unfortunately, it seems like she's filling a void. However you need to explain that this text-tethering is annoying you.

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She can't go 30 minutes without freaking out and spamming you?  She sounds extremely immature and emotionally unbalanced.  If you've told her to stop and she still hasn't stopped, break up with her.  No reason to put up with this.

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5 minutes ago, ShyViolet said:

She can't go 30 minutes without freaking out and spamming you?  She sounds extremely immature and emotionally unbalanced.  If you've told her to stop and she still hasn't stopped, break up with her.  No reason to put up with this.

50 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

Unfortunately, it seems like she's filling a void. However you need to explain that this text-tethering is annoying you.

How should I handle this 

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When a woman feels her man is slipping away, isn't into it as he used to, then unconsciously she double her efforts to get his attention. 

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10 minutes ago, Gaeta said:

When a woman feels her man is slipping away, isn't into it as he used to, then unconsciously she double her efforts to get his attention. 

How do I prove to her I’m still here I’m not going anywhere 

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3 minutes ago, George Gracie said:

How do I prove to her I’m still here I’m not going anywhere 

What does she wants from you? What is she complaining about in this relationship?

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32 minutes ago, Gaeta said:

What does she wants from you? What is she complaining about in this relationship?

She’s kelts quite 

 

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Want a formula for her to be less clingy?  Text her 50 times a day for a couple of weeks.  Tell her how much you love her non-stop, bascially love bomb the hell out of her and act like a simp.  Her attraction will drop, problem solved.

A middle ground between what you're doing now and what I wrote above is just to reassure her from time to time.

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58 minutes ago, George Gracie said:

She’s kelts quite 

 

Sorry, English isn't my first language, I don't understand that what you mean. I'd like you explain what she wants from you in details. 

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Me and my girlfriend have been together for three months. I don’t know why but there are days I feel in love with her. Last week I felt so in love but why not now. I mean I could listen to songs and relate to them. I knew I loved her. But why not now? This happens about every once a month. It’s like something unclicked. When I’m around her I’m content but not as happy as I was last week. I don’t think about how much I love her as much. I mean what happened? Any thoughts ? I feel more in love with her when I’m happy.

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Unfortunate you have continued mixed feelings, so my advice on this remains the same from a few days ago. Hope you figure it out. Can you talk to a trusted adult about it who knows her?

 

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What should I do?

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