Vikingfan Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 Ok so my ex boyfriend and I broke up like 4 months ago and every guy that I have met I have pushed away since then because I was always hoping he would come running back. Well I met this guy last week and I would really really like to date him but I dont know how to get his attention that Im interested in him as a boyfriend and not just a friend...any ideas? Its been awhile since i have been on the dating scene. Im kind of the shy type and Im not very confident so it makes it a little difficult...oh hes so hot i want him bad
megabit15 Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 Ok so my ex boyfriend and I broke up like 4 months ago and every guy that I have met I have pushed away since then because I was always hoping he would come running back. Well I met this guy last week and I would really really like to date him but I dont know how to get his attention that Im interested in him as a boyfriend and not just a friend...any ideas? Its been awhile since i have been on the dating scene. Im kind of the shy type and Im not very confident so it makes it a little difficult...oh hes so hot i want him bad What do you know about the guy other than he's hot? Seriously, why do you want him as a boyfriend? Do you have any common interests? A good way to get someone's attention is just to smile and say hi. Talk with him, get his background info. Is he dating any one else, where does he live, mention common people you know...
Author Vikingfan Posted October 15, 2005 Author Posted October 15, 2005 ok so I dont know him really at all. But the little I did hang out with him I like his personality. We both like to go out and have fun and I know a couple of his friends cuz they are friends with my ex boyfriend from like years ago...thats a little awkward but its all good:D maybe I just want someone to be there...maybe not as a boyfriend but just a friend with bennifits type thing...i dont know.
megabit15 Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 ok so I dont know him really at all. But the little I did hang out with him I like his personality. We both like to go out and have fun and I know a couple of his friends cuz they are friends with my ex boyfriend from like years ago...thats a little awkward but its all good:D maybe I just want someone to be there...maybe not as a boyfriend but just a friend with bennifits type thing...i dont know. I hope you don't sell yourself short as to settle for a friend with benefits. It seems that the female often gets attached and then hurt. Why not get to know him and see if he is boyfriend potential?
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