SumGuy Posted February 4, 2021 Posted February 4, 2021 2 hours ago, Emilyinroses said: Please! It took me 5 minutes to respond to these guys after we just met! I could have gone to the toilet, answer a phone call, answer the door because a neighbour wants to talk to me, etc, etc. A normal person does not behave like them and I’m glad they are off. Next. Wow! 5 minutes set them off. I was think more like it took you days. Heck anything less than 5 hours I don't even think about. These guys have got some real issues and clearly no life. I'm with you on so many typical things in a person with a life that can delay response 5 minutes...let alone my wi fi and phone service. and known issues with certain phones.
StrongHands Posted February 4, 2021 Posted February 4, 2021 1 hour ago, poppyfields said: I think the point is not how long Emilyroses took to respond, but rather how these men responded to it. We can debate that she should have responded sooner, but that does not negate the fact these men had no right to go psycho on her! They had not even met in person yet and even if they had, that still does not give them the right to go off on her like that. It's flat out unacceptable, period, the end. It was a huge red flag, one that should not be ignored, regardless of how long it took you to respond. Mature grown up men with their shyt together do not behave this way. Choose wisely from the getgo and avoid emotional insanity later. Not to sound redundant but this ^^ is exactly right. It’s totally at the OP’s discretion as to when she replies or doesn’t reply. There’s no committed relationship or even anything else that has been established at this point. The whole thing is childish and frankly “jerkish.” 1
Author Emilyinroses Posted February 4, 2021 Author Posted February 4, 2021 (edited) 10 minutes ago, StrongHands said: Not to sound redundant but this ^^ is exactly right. It’s totally at the OP’s discretion as to when she replies or doesn’t reply. There’s no committed relationship or even anything else that has been established at this point. The whole thing is childish and frankly “jerkish.” Agree. When this happened with the first guy I didn’t think much about it, but then a second guy came along on the same day with the same speech and I was just like ‘what the eff’!? That’s when I wanted to come here and ask you guys because I know some in here have much more experience in OLD than I have. Edited February 4, 2021 by Emilyinroses
StrongHands Posted February 5, 2021 Posted February 5, 2021 14 minutes ago, Emilyinroses said: Agree. When this happened with the first guy I didn’t think much about it, but then a second guy came along on the same day with the same speech and I was just like ‘what the eff’!? That’s when I wanted to come here and ask you guys because I know some in here have much more experience in OLD than I have. They should BRING you roses, they should take you out to dinner, etc. In other words, they should do EVERYTHING they can to make you HAPPY and make YOU want to date them again. Just My Opinion 1 1
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