Wiseman2 Posted February 7, 2021 Posted February 7, 2021 19 hours ago, sushiandtacos said: Well I'm seeing guy #1 tonight so I will also update you guys on that too! Ok, so far who do you like better?
Author sushiandtacos Posted February 7, 2021 Author Posted February 7, 2021 2 hours ago, Wiseman2 said: Ok, so far who do you like better? Guys, guy #1 was very awkward last night and I enjoyed my time with him significantly less than guy #2, which is a bummer because he was so sweet just not for me
StrongHands Posted February 7, 2021 Posted February 7, 2021 29 minutes ago, sushiandtacos said: Guys, guy #1 was very awkward last night and I enjoyed my time with him significantly less than guy #2, which is a bummer because he was so sweet just not for me I guess that's what dating is for and all about. Being around someone that is awkward is TOUGH and requires YOU to really have to CARRY the date.
Author sushiandtacos Posted February 7, 2021 Author Posted February 7, 2021 21 minutes ago, StrongHands said: I guess that's what dating is for and all about. Being around someone that is awkward is TOUGH and requires YOU to really have to CARRY the date. Yes that's exactly what transpired last night his nerves made me feel uncomfy lol.
StrongHands Posted February 7, 2021 Posted February 7, 2021 6 minutes ago, sushiandtacos said: Yes that's exactly what transpired last night his nerves made me feel uncomfy lol. It really does put the weight of the date on your shoulders. You have to carry the conversation and the time passes REAL slowly. Uncomfy is a good way to put it but the bright side is that you found out that he is NOT a match. 1
princessaurora Posted February 7, 2021 Posted February 7, 2021 I'm glad you decided to trust your instincts and give # 2 a chance. Maybe he just doesn't know how to go about planning dates with all the covid restrictions so he was leaving that up to you to ensure you were comfortable. Just a thought I had since he seemed to be fine in person. 1
Crazelnut Posted February 7, 2021 Posted February 7, 2021 Butterflies are awesome and all that, but watch now to see how future interactions go. If you have to do all the work getting another date up & running, just cut your losses and move on. 2 1
Author sushiandtacos Posted February 7, 2021 Author Posted February 7, 2021 1 hour ago, StrongHands said: It really does put the weight of the date on your shoulders. You have to carry the conversation and the time passes REAL slowly. Uncomfy is a good way to put it but the bright side is that you found out that he is NOT a match. haha omg so true I was counting the seconds until I was free 1
Author sushiandtacos Posted February 7, 2021 Author Posted February 7, 2021 24 minutes ago, princessaurora said: I'm glad you decided to trust your instincts and give # 2 a chance. Maybe he just doesn't know how to go about planning dates with all the covid restrictions so he was leaving that up to you to ensure you were comfortable. Just a thought I had since he seemed to be fine in person. Yeah I think that could be true or that he's just really bad at planning lol 3 minutes ago, Crazelnut said: Butterflies are awesome and all that, but watch now to see how future interactions go. If you have to do all the work getting another date up & running, just cut your losses and move on. Yes exactly! Need to see if he initiates and plans better next time, if not then time to reconsider again
mortensorchid Posted February 7, 2021 Posted February 7, 2021 OLD just sucks. Why? It just does, because people suck. I guess this is cancel culture - you just erase the person from your life and you're both done. Of course we didn't have a word for it until just recently, but that's another matter and I digress... I have said I don't understand how/why it is that people have so little courtesy for others, then again I guess I am from the old school and I believe in clear communication. However, in this situation, I'd just move on. I've learned that if someone is not interested or even has enough courtesy to communicate their wants/needs clearly, then it's just not worth your time / energy. And there's nothing you can do otherwise, so next. 2
Wiseman2 Posted February 7, 2021 Posted February 7, 2021 2 hours ago, sushiandtacos said: Guys, guy #1 was very awkward last night and I enjoyed my time with him significantly less than guy #2, which is a bummer because he was so sweet just not for me So guy # 2 is the number one guy? 1 1
StrongHands Posted February 7, 2021 Posted February 7, 2021 7 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: So guy # 2 is the number one guy? I think that #2 is now #1 and #1 is now ONE AND DONE......... 2
Author sushiandtacos Posted February 7, 2021 Author Posted February 7, 2021 9 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: So guy # 2 is the number one guy? I guess so for now hahaha
Author sushiandtacos Posted February 7, 2021 Author Posted February 7, 2021 Also I can get into specific details, but I won't for privacy purposes. BUT couple things the awkward guy did were off-putting. One thing was that he got the check and made a big deal about paying and "being traditional". IDK I just thought it would've been nice to just pay without announcing to the world that you are paying LOL.
peach302 Posted February 7, 2021 Posted February 7, 2021 10 minutes ago, sushiandtacos said: Also I can get into specific details, but I won't for privacy purposes. BUT couple things the awkward guy did were off-putting. One thing was that he got the check and made a big deal about paying and "being traditional". IDK I just thought it would've been nice to just pay without announcing to the world that you are paying LOL. LOL So the person at the forefront is the guy who made you do all the planning and was slow to set a date? . I think you always liked this one better anyway so anything negative he may do u would end up ignoring lol. As opposed to the "awkward", one. 3
poppyfields Posted February 7, 2021 Posted February 7, 2021 On 2/5/2021 at 9:54 PM, sushiandtacos said: He was really sweet and very different than how he appeared from his texts lol. We had a great time and agreed to do something together soon! I for one would like to hear more about your date with No. 2! Where'd you go, who paid, did he kiss you? And have you heard from him since? Agreeing to see each other again "soon"? What does this mean? It sounds so "polite" and quite ambiguous imo. Sorry for the questions, I'm trying to keep myself distracted. Oh and PS, you mentioned earlier him (no 2) giving you "headaches," don't rule men out cause of that, it means something's happening. Lol As opposed to the other guy who doesn't give you headaches but with whom you couldn't wait to end the date. 1 1
StrongHands Posted February 7, 2021 Posted February 7, 2021 32 minutes ago, sushiandtacos said: Also I can get into specific details, but I won't for privacy purposes. BUT couple things the awkward guy did were off-putting. One thing was that he got the check and made a big deal about paying and "being traditional". IDK I just thought it would've been nice to just pay without announcing to the world that you are paying LOL. Why is the GUY paying even an issue. HE SHOULD PAY FOR THE DATE. Who did he announce that he was paying too exactly? This topic seems to be universal in terms of who does or does not pay. Frankly, I just don't get it. He asked you out so why would he NOT pay for the date. 1
Author sushiandtacos Posted February 7, 2021 Author Posted February 7, 2021 50 minutes ago, poppyfields said: I for one would like to hear more about your date with No. 2! Where'd you go, who paid, did he kiss you? And have you heard from him since? Agreeing to see each other again "soon"? What does this mean? It sounds so "polite" and quite ambiguous imo. Sorry for the questions, I'm trying to keep myself distracted. Oh and PS, you mentioned earlier him (no 2) giving you "headaches," don't rule men out cause of that, it means something's happening. Lol As opposed to the other guy who doesn't give you headaches but with whom you couldn't wait to end the date. I dm'd you PF 1 1
Author sushiandtacos Posted February 7, 2021 Author Posted February 7, 2021 50 minutes ago, StrongHands said: Why is the GUY paying even an issue. HE SHOULD PAY FOR THE DATE. Who did he announce that he was paying too exactly? This topic seems to be universal in terms of who does or does not pay. Frankly, I just don't get it. He asked you out so why would he NOT pay for the date. LOL yeah he just kept going on and on about how traditional he is and how he will "gladly pay for the bill', but IMO he couldve just not said all that and paid lol.
Wiseman2 Posted February 7, 2021 Posted February 7, 2021 (edited) 1 hour ago, sushiandtacos said: Also I can get into specific details, but I won't for privacy purposes. When someone starts picking their nose on the date, it's time to wrap it up whether they pay or not.☝ Edited February 7, 2021 by Wiseman2 1 1
Author sushiandtacos Posted February 7, 2021 Author Posted February 7, 2021 2 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: When someone starts picking their nose on the date, it's time to wrap it up whether they pay or not.☝ 1
StrongHands Posted February 7, 2021 Posted February 7, 2021 1 hour ago, Wiseman2 said: When someone starts picking their nose on the date, it's time to wrap it up whether they pay or not.☝ Picking the nose along with any bad hygiene things. I just don’t GET why it would even be an issue or worth mentioning by #1 when HE asked the OP out? What am I missing?
peach302 Posted February 7, 2021 Posted February 7, 2021 1 hour ago, Wiseman2 said: When someone starts picking their nose on the date, it's time to wrap it up whether they pay or not.☝ Eeewwwwww 1
Author sushiandtacos Posted February 7, 2021 Author Posted February 7, 2021 5 hours ago, StrongHands said: I think that #2 is now #1 and #1 is now ONE AND DONE......... hahaha
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