cookies Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 Ex gf broke it off about 4-5months ago and so far from what I can tell she only cares for me as a friend. Before we went out we were great friends too and we both share really close mutual friends. That is kind of still the case now (still good friends and share our close friends) but I still feel something and I don't know how I would cope if she was to start seeing someone else. Our friends that we go out with and do most things together are mutual. So if I were to do NC, I think that would mean NC with my good friends too for me or her. I don't want my friends to suffer from this either. All as friends, we share alot of history together and I can't see (or don't want) me or her losing that close friendship. So far things have been going ok, but I can see things going bad in the future.
pippen_2k Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 Preety tough situation 4 you, but I think for the short term you might have to do NC with your ex and your friends. If your hurting life is no fun at all, so id take care of myself first. If they are good friends they will totally understand your situation... just explain to em. Dont worry, your not cutting them away all together.. probably just for a few months till you start feeling better. I hope things work out for ya
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