josedelamuerte Posted February 1, 2021 Posted February 1, 2021 I had a girlfriend who had that too. One night when we were fooling around (before we became official) we tried going all the way, and she closed up. Besides being in pain, she was also very embarrassed. She apologized, and told me that it wasn't me, and explained the situation. Then we were quiet for a while. And then I told her "I still like you, and I wanna stick around". We weren't together for long (it was a rebound relationship), but I think that the very fact that we had that awkward discussion and she saw that I wasn't only in it for the sex made her more comfortable around me, and intercourse slowly became more, well, possible. It was a much gentler kind of sex than what I was used to, and I have to say that I liked it. Also the fact that we were riding this fine edge between pleasure and pain made it very kinky and memorable. In a good way. 1
Author little paris Posted February 1, 2021 Author Posted February 1, 2021 1 minute ago, josedelamuerte said: I had a girlfriend who had that too. One night when we were fooling around (before we became official) we tried going all the way, and she closed up. Besides being in pain, she was also very embarrassed. She apologized, and told me that it wasn't me, and explained the situation. Then we were quiet for a while. And then I told her "I still like you, and I wanna stick around". We weren't together for long (it was a rebound relationship), but I think that the very fact that we had that awkward discussion and she saw that I wasn't only in it for the sex made her more comfortable around me, and intercourse slowly became more, well, possible. It was a much gentler kind of sex than what I was used to, and I have to say that I liked it. Also the fact that we were riding this fine edge between pleasure and pain made it very kinky and memorable. In a good way. I'm glad you had a nice enough experience despite her issue. It's reassuring in a way to know I'm not alone in experiencing this, equally that there are treatment options. Hopefully I get the chance your former flame had to explain this to him. I know he will understand, I just hope I can see him soon to do so. Whatever happens with us from there is up to a higher power, but giving him the entire picture is what I need to do and he can decide if I'm worth it or not.
d0nnivain Posted February 2, 2021 Posted February 2, 2021 I'm sorry you got bad medical news but at least it's treatable. That is better than wandering around trying to figure out what's wrong & having no idea what to do next Since you believe this guy to be a good person just tell him. Do follow up the discussion with something sexual you can do so he knows you are still open to pleasure. If you are right & he's a good guy all should be well. If he disappears over this, you learned that he was not of good character & you're better off without him. I'll keep my fingers crossed that both the discussion & your treatment go well
Wiseman2 Posted February 2, 2021 Posted February 2, 2021 21 hours ago, little paris said: . Whatever happens with us from there is up to a higher power, but giving him the entire picture is what I need to do and he can decide if I'm worth it or not. Whatever happens is completely in your control. Also completely in your control is deciding who you let into your life. You decide what you are "worth", not others. Do not think of yourself as damaged goods.
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