Gaeta Posted January 28, 2021 Posted January 28, 2021 You don't need to pack your things asap. You make your suitcases and go to your parents if you have a key. You can come back later with your mom & dad to pack your other things. 2
d0nnivain Posted January 28, 2021 Posted January 28, 2021 1 hour ago, Scorpi said: I am moving out when the timing is right since I am getting sick of dealing with him and his issues. Right now, the weather is bad and my parents are out of town. That is reasonable but you do need to start prepping. If you will need professional movers call them. If you can do it yourself, start collecting boxes. You don't have to run out the door this minute but you do need to prepare.
Author Scorpi Posted January 28, 2021 Author Posted January 28, 2021 33 minutes ago, Gaeta said: You have a key to your parents? No, I don't
Author Scorpi Posted January 28, 2021 Author Posted January 28, 2021 23 minutes ago, Alvi said: Do you have relatives or friends? Someone who can help you to move out? Yes, my parents told me that they will help 2
Author Scorpi Posted January 28, 2021 Author Posted January 28, 2021 5 minutes ago, d0nnivain said: That is reasonable but you do need to start prepping. If you will need professional movers call them. If you can do it yourself, start collecting boxes. You don't have to run out the door this minute but you do need to prepare. Yup, that is my plan for right now 2
Gaeta Posted January 28, 2021 Posted January 28, 2021 @Scorpi You are doing the right thing! Separating is never easy even when it's necessary. You will be rewarded for this later on, you'll find a new man that'll know how to cherish you. 4
poppyfields Posted January 28, 2021 Posted January 28, 2021 (edited) 1 hour ago, peach302 said: I would have left by now. Me too! Scorpi, don't know how could stand even looking at him, let alone living in the same house/apt as him, ugh! What he said to you about having 30 days to improve, lord that is just so arrogant, dictator-like, that is NOT how a relationship is supposed to be! Prison? Yes. Relationship, no. Get the hell out NOW. You don't need boxes, just leave and you can get your stuff later. Bring your dad with you. Surely you have a friend you could stay with until your parents return? Hell I'd rather live in a shelter than with the likes of a person who said that to me. Agree with Trident, it really does sound like excuses, stalling. What I can't figure out is, why? I'm sorry. Edited January 28, 2021 by poppyfields 2
Acacia98 Posted January 28, 2021 Posted January 28, 2021 17 minutes ago, Gaeta said: @Scorpi You are doing the right thing! Separating is never easy even when it's necessary. You will be rewarded for this later on, you'll find a new man that'll know how to cherish you. I second that. 1
Author Scorpi Posted January 28, 2021 Author Posted January 28, 2021 12 minutes ago, poppyfields said: Me too! Scorpi, don't know how could stand even looking at him, let alone living in the same house/apt as him, ugh! What he said to you about having 30 days to improve, lord that is just so arrogant, dictator-like, that is NOT how a relationship is supposed to be! Prison? Yes. Relationship, no. Get the hell out NOW. You don't need boxes, just leave and you can get your stuff later. Bring your dad with you. Surely you have a friend you could stay with until your parents return? Hell I'd rather live in a shelter than with the likes of a person who said that to me. Agree with Trident, it really does sound like excuses, stalling. What I can't figure out is, why? I'm sorry. Yea, I see your points. I am going to check if I can stay with my one friend. It would be kinda awkward to continue on staying with him.
Author Scorpi Posted January 28, 2021 Author Posted January 28, 2021 (edited) 31 minutes ago, Gaeta said: @Scorpi You are doing the right thing! Separating is never easy even when it's necessary. You will be rewarded for this later on, you'll find a new man that'll know how to cherish you. Yea, it is not. It is easy to second guess yourself too since you are in the midst of things. That is why having third party opinions can be important. So I thank you for that and the rest of you guys too. Edited January 28, 2021 by Scorpi 2
peach302 Posted January 28, 2021 Posted January 28, 2021 (edited) 12 minutes ago, Scorpi said: Yea, I see your points. I am going to check if I can stay with my one friend. It would be kinda awkward to continue on staying with him. I bet you a million pounds he thinks he would have you under his thumb after saying that and you would do anything to be validated by him. What a loser The key is to be strong and self assured when you're in a position like this. Unfortunately a lot of women are not. Edited January 28, 2021 by peach302
poppyfields Posted January 28, 2021 Posted January 28, 2021 2 minutes ago, Scorpi said: Yea, it is not. It is easy to second guess yourself too since you are in the midst of things. That is why having third party opinions can be important. So I thank you for that and the rest of you guys too. What was your response when he said that to you? That you have 30 days to improve. I cannot even imagine a boyfriend saying this to me, my own father never said that to me!
Author Scorpi Posted January 28, 2021 Author Posted January 28, 2021 Just now, poppyfields said: What was your response when he said that to you? That you have 30 days to improve. I cannot even imagine a boyfriend saying this to me, my own father never said that to me! I didn't really say anything since I was in shocked. After that, I decided that I had enough and was going to move out. 2
Wiseman2 Posted January 28, 2021 Posted January 28, 2021 1 hour ago, Scorpi said: Yes, my parents told me that they will help Excellent. Good call to move out.
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