Gaeta Posted January 27, 2021 Posted January 27, 2021 1 hour ago, Fletch Lives said: It's clear some of you have a lot to learn about relationships. If you want a great one, you have to make sacrifices. There is no free lunch. So what if I'm in a relationship and I take pictures with pretty girls and have them around where my SO can find them. Would you guys say this is okay? I don't know why you're trying to put a spin on this that has nothing to do with OP's story. We're not talking 'pretty boys' here, we are talking about a spouse that died and ex-relationships. I still have my wedding album from 1986, it's in a box in my closet. It has nothing to do with respect toward a boyfriend. It's part of my personal history and when I die it will be passed down to my daughter. It's possible I have a couple of pictures there of an ex boyfriend that I forgot to throw away, hey it's a closet! How often you go through boxes in your closet? And you remember everything you put in those boxes? And what's the business of a new boyfriend to look in the boxes in her closet? 1 1
Fletch Lives Posted January 27, 2021 Posted January 27, 2021 4 minutes ago, Gaeta said: And what's the business of a new boyfriend to look in the boxes in her closet? It happened, it's a done deal. She should have known better. I don't have pictures of exes. But I know better. News flash - you can't do whatever you want in a relationship with no regard or respect for your partner. Not if you want it to be good and last.
peach302 Posted January 27, 2021 Posted January 27, 2021 (edited) 1 hour ago, Fletch Lives said: It happened, it's a done deal. She should have known better. I don't have pictures of exes. But I know better. News flash - you can't do whatever you want in a relationship with no regard or respect for your partner. Not if you want it to be good and last. Her partner is insecure. Its really as simple as that. You're also defending a man who is calling others fat and commenting on a deceased man's teeth. Could this guy stoop any lower. I'd be done by that point. Forget coming on a forum and making a thread about it asking if i should put up with that kind of behaviour. But i understand the OP must love this man. And love can be blind after all. Edited January 27, 2021 by peach302 1 1
Fletch Lives Posted January 27, 2021 Posted January 27, 2021 12 minutes ago, peach302 said: You're also defending a man who is calling others fat and commenting on a deceased man's teeth. Could this guy stoop any lower. Both of them are doing bad things.
Gaeta Posted January 27, 2021 Posted January 27, 2021 21 minutes ago, Fletch Lives said: Both of them are doing bad things. What bad things exactly she is doing? Having a picture of an ex in a box at the bottom of her closet? probably something she forgot about laying under a pile of shoe boxes. 1
kendahke Posted January 27, 2021 Posted January 27, 2021 44 minutes ago, Fletch Lives said: Both of them are doing bad things. nope..sorry. There are no both sides are doing anything here. This guy is the one who can't handle that he's not the first man in her life. A mature man can handle that bit of truth. He's got issues he needs to talk with a therapist about--he doesn't need a girlfriend at this point in his life. 1
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