teressa0397 Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 I seen my my guy i'am haveing an affair with, I ask him Why are you hanging on to me its been 11 years now. his replied was because i love you. I gave him a great big hug. He said it like he really mean it. I walk away.with tears an my eyes . Will i ever give up?? I'am A foolish Women hanging on to hope. What You Think???????? Sign Teressa 0397
harleygirl92156 Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 From someone who was cheated on, I think you should keep walking and not look back. He is marrried I assume so there is an unsuspecting wife that he is betraying. You are both doing wrong, be the bigger person and STOP.
MustB1 Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 11 years! Are you also married? That is a long time to just be someones side line.
Author teressa0397 Posted October 17, 2005 Author Posted October 17, 2005 11 years! Are you also married? That is a long time to just be someones side line. 11 years is a long time. but i find my self i care for him. he is like a part of me. no he is not married has a live an girfriend.
harleygirl92156 Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 11 years is a long time. but i find my self i care for him. he is like a part of me. no he is not married has a live an girfriend. Ok, so let me ask, what is your marriage like and how do you feel about your husband? How long have you been married and do you have children? If you have children, how old are they and is there a chance any of them belong to your lover?
LucreziaBorgia Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 He's having the type of relationship he wants with you right now. He has had it for over a decade. It works 100% for him, so what possible motivation would he have to "fix" something that to him isn't broken? Your only choices with this guy are to be either a HOW or an UOW, but the bottom line is - as long as you make yourself available to him as an OW, that is all you will ever be for him. What about your marriage? Do you want this guy badly enough to leave your husband? If OM weren't in the picture would you want to leave your H?
Author teressa0397 Posted October 17, 2005 Author Posted October 17, 2005 Ok, so let me ask, what is your marriage like and how do you feel about your husband? How long have you been married and do you have children? If you have children, how old are they and is there a chance any of them belong to your lover? My marriage is lonely. my husband is good to me an everyway a man can be. but we are like companions thats all. with no sex. listen i'am human with feelings i'am very sexual active, WE have been married 14 years but all together about 25 years. MY children are not his.I have been married before.. they are adult kids . I have 4 children 2 of them are Twins. they are adult children. i care for my husband. but i need sex. I dont have no children with my lover.
harleygirl92156 Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 My marriage is lonely. my husband is good to me an everyway a man can be. but we are like companions thats all. with no sex. listen i'am human with feelings i'am very sexual active, WE have been married 14 years but all together about 25 years. MY children are not his.I have been married before.. they are adult kids . I have 4 children 2 of them are Twins. they are adult children. i care for my husband. but i need sex. I dont have no children with my lover. Ok, does your husband know you see another man for sex? Have you talked to your husband about your NEEDS or did you just take it upon yourself to go elsewhere without talking to your husband about what is lacking in the marriage and what you need from him. NO SEX, none at all, or just not as much as you would like?
Author teressa0397 Posted October 18, 2005 Author Posted October 18, 2005 Ok, does your husband know you see another man for sex? Have you talked to your husband about your NEEDS or did you just take it upon yourself to go elsewhere without talking to your husband about what is lacking in the marriage and what you need from him. NO SEX, none at all, or just not as much as you would like? I talk about my needs to my husband all the time.
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