CherryLady Posted January 13, 2021 Posted January 13, 2021 (edited) How do I tell a guy I'm not interested in him - but in a polite way? I already ghosted him a couple times, but he keeps texting me. When he wished me a happy New year and merry Christmas I replied - and he's back again with his silly messages. He bores me to death, but he's a nice guy and I don't want to block him. But his messages are really annoying (how r u, what r u doing, send me u pics and all that kind of thing - every day). He acts too needy and it's annoying. I just don't know how to deal with that sort of guys. What should I do? Edited January 13, 2021 by CherryLady
Alvi Posted January 13, 2021 Posted January 13, 2021 (edited) Rather be direct than polite. Not everyone get a polite message that another person is not interested. Not everyone gets that they've been ghosted. You are not doing him any favors by trying to be too nice. Write to him: "I don't think we are a good match! Best of luck in your search!" If he replies anything else rather than:" Ok, thank you" block him. Don't offer any explanations if asked, just be done. Edited January 13, 2021 by Alvi 1 1
Wiseman2 Posted January 13, 2021 Posted January 13, 2021 2 hours ago, CherryLady said: (how r u, what r u doing, send me u pics and all that kind of thing - every day). "I don't think we're a match". Then delete and block. 1 1
d0nnivain Posted January 13, 2021 Posted January 13, 2021 When you reply you give him hope. Follow the advice from @Wiseman2above. 1
Author CherryLady Posted January 13, 2021 Author Posted January 13, 2021 38 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: "I don't think we're a match". Then delete and block. I was thinking about it... it seems cruel, but yeah, maybe it's the kindest thing to do. Thanks! 1 1
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