Yogaxoxo Posted January 13, 2021 Posted January 13, 2021 “There is something in my gut that does not click the way I hoped or thought it would so the only way to figure out why that is or what that is to keep doing this, talking to each other and figure it out” Backstory - long distance relationship for a few months, both consistently seeing each other exclusively for a few months (3) . After saying “I’m falling in love “
Wiseman2 Posted January 13, 2021 Posted January 13, 2021 28 minutes ago, Yogaxoxo said: “There is something in my gut that does not click the way I hoped or thought it would so the only way to figure out why that is or what that is to keep doing this, talking to each other and figure it out” LDRs are very difficult and unsatisfying. It seems like he's dating locally and wants to back out. You should do the same. 1
littleblackheart Posted January 13, 2021 Posted January 13, 2021 1 hour ago, Yogaxoxo said: “There is something in my gut that does not click the way I hoped or thought it would so the only way to figure out why that is or what that is to keep doing this, talking to each other and figure it out” It sounds like a miscommunication problem. When there is willingness to figure things out on both ends, it's always worth a try.
Alpacalia Posted January 14, 2021 Posted January 14, 2021 (edited) On 1/12/2021 at 9:38 PM, Yogaxoxo said: “There is something in my gut that does not click the way I hoped or thought it would so the only way to figure out why that is or what that is to keep doing this, talking to each other and figure it out” This is pure conjecture whether this is his response to you saying that you are "falling in love." But, it would seem that he has not fallen in love and that he does not feel the same way towards you. Edited January 14, 2021 by Alpaca
Ruby Slippers Posted January 14, 2021 Posted January 14, 2021 It doesn't sound great to me. I've started long-distance relationships a couple of times, and in both cases, feelings and seriousness kept increasing until one of us move to the other's city. Unless things had kept progressing in that direction, I would have lost interest.
Fletch Lives Posted January 15, 2021 Posted January 15, 2021 On 1/13/2021 at 1:08 AM, Wiseman2 said: LDRs are very difficult and unsatisfying. It seems like he's dating locally and wants to back out. You should do the same. I agree. Also, It sounds like his interest is going down / he's falling out of love with you. 1
Perdu Posted January 19, 2021 Posted January 19, 2021 On 1/13/2021 at 7:38 AM, Yogaxoxo said: “There is something in my gut that does not click the way I hoped or thought it would so the only way to figure out why that is or what that is to keep doing this, talking to each other and figure it out” Backstory - long distance relationship for a few months, both consistently seeing each other exclusively for a few months (3) . After saying “I’m falling in love “ Well, (s)he rushed into thinking that (s)he was in love, but either things between you too didn't go in that direction for him/her since that moment, either somebody else is in the picture and (s)he's testing waters. Or maybe both. I think you should end it or put it on the back burner as (s)he did and consider other options. LDR are hard to pull off and it's more easy to lose interest.
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