zblueye Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 I met the most wonderful women 7 monts ago. We hit it off from the minute we met. I have never connected with anyone like this before. We are both divorced and we were on the same schedule with our kids until 2 months ago. Her schedule switched opposite. She wanted me to switch mine, I tried and battled to get it done and did, however a day too late. For the last 2 weeks she bacame difficult to get a hold of, some of that due to her work and having her kids. To make a long story short, out of stupid curiosity I went back to the dating site from where we met and saw that she had an active profile with activity on it. So, I tried to call her and talk to her about it but she wouldnt take my calls. I sent a short polite email to her asking why? I in return recieved a not so nice long email from her. This lead to 2 people being immature in email exchange for a couple days. She suddenly disappeared. Will not communicate at all and I have since stopped also. This is the most amazing women I have ever met. I have never felt like this about anyone before. I would love a second chance with her. Is it worth it? If so, what should I do to ask for forgiveness for the email incidents (I forgave her already)? In the past We had talked about building a relationship together because we worked so well together. I still want to. How do I get her to? Do I just sit and not communicate? When is a good time to communicate? month, 2 months? I did see her the other day and she was looking right at me, that confused me. Any help or advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks
Art_Critic Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 She must not be that great of a woman if she is treating you like crap. You need to back off.. The writing is on the wall that she wants nothing to do with you.. And this isn't about a second chance.. This is about giving her the space she needs to see if she misses you. As soon as 2 people that have only been dating a short time comes to blows even it it is thru email then that drives a wedge that is real hard to remove. Basically I mean that you need to leave her entirely alone ( NC ) and she if she contacts you.. If she doesn't you have your answer..
Author zblueye Posted October 15, 2005 Author Posted October 15, 2005 Just want to thank all the people here who have shared their experiences and who have replied to help others. Just reading the posts and replies have been a great help. So, to all, Thank you
Mary3 Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 She does not want what you want anymore and is back on the dating site. I think this speaks clearly of what she thinks about you and her former relationship with you. Ahoy Titanic ! Grab a life jacket and swim away from this sinking ship of misery.
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