scobro Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 I am trying no contact with my ex so I can move on but my wife who ended our marriage keeps e-mailing me and called once and I have only had my phone hooked up for the last 24 hours.She even e-mailed me to let me know the type of blue grapes I like are now in season and at the grocery store:rolleyes: Why does she do this is it because she feels guilty?She even wanted to come to my place to be with our dogs I had to tell her I will never get over her if I have to keep seeing her and hearing from her.She is trying so hard to be "friends" so she doesn't feel so guilty but I told her I am not as far removed as she is and that I cannot be friends with my wife right now because I still love her but she wont take the hint.I don't know what else to do.Any thoughts?
Art_Critic Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 She is doing because of familarity.. Habit if you will.. you were a big part of her life and she just hasn't let go.. I think it is up to you at this point as to what is right or wrong.. Set your boundaries and talk to her about ..
whichwayisup Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 She does feel guilty and doesn't want you to hate her and resent her. The thing is she caused your pain by ending the marriage. I do agree part of it is habit and obviously she wants to keep things on good terms...But you do need to tell her to leave you alone so you can deal with pain, move through them without her calling/emailing you every few days. Look out for you first.
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