Helloyall Posted December 31, 2020 Posted December 31, 2020 So i have a crush on a guy on instagram and we talked . But the problem is that we dont talk alot . Like when i tedt him he take hours to reply me altough he is online most of the time and he is liking photos i kean he is using instagram. I dont wanna wate my time i wanna move on and forget him its obvious i am not a priority for him. I mean nothing to him, if he was into me he would reply fast thats all i know. Like i text him today he reply after like 14hours and then i reply him next day and then he reply the other day etc.. we dont have real convo and deep long connection
d0nnivain Posted January 1, 2021 Posted January 1, 2021 Do you know each other? If so, build up the connection in real life not over IG. If you don't know each IRL, do move on because you aren't "real" to him . You are merely somebody on his feed. 1
JSmith123 Posted January 1, 2021 Posted January 1, 2021 Stop messaging him. Delete then block him. Pretty simple... 2
Wiseman2 Posted January 1, 2021 Posted January 1, 2021 7 hours ago, Helloyall said: when i tedt him he take hours to reply me altough he is online most of the time and he is liking photos i kean he is using instagram. These are the people who you delete and block from ALL your social media and messaging apps. Take this time to clean up your social media and get rid of dead weight. Reset your privacy settings so that only known individuals can view your content. This way you have the time and energy to put a good profile and pics on quality dating apps and start talking to and meeting men.
ExpatInItaly Posted January 1, 2021 Posted January 1, 2021 9 hours ago, Helloyall said: I mean nothing to him, I don't mean to be harsh, but serious question - why would you mean something to him? If I understand correctly, you don't know this person in real life. It's therefore normal that you don't mean anything to him, OP. You're a stranger from the internet. If he's taking a long time to reply, you can assume that the interest isn't mutual. Better to stop reaching out. 3
guest569 Posted January 1, 2021 Posted January 1, 2021 10 hours ago, JSmith123 said: Stop messaging him. Delete then block him. Pretty simple... Yep, remove contact and temptation and will definitely speed up the process.
smackie9 Posted January 1, 2021 Posted January 1, 2021 It's not reality, it's just a fantasy.........
Gaeta Posted January 1, 2021 Posted January 1, 2021 (edited) Even if it's just a fantasy, yes it is, it's still hard to detach from that 'dream' you built in your mind. What you do is delete everything about him, and block him and make concrete plan to meet guys to date 'face to face'. It's not easy with the covid but it's still doable. You will continue thinking about him for a while but you just push through it, and soon you won't think of him anymore. Edited January 1, 2021 by Gaeta 2
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