Kristine Posted December 29, 2020 Posted December 29, 2020 I suck at breaking up. Do i call? I sent a text it was ignored, how do i break up with this guy full of red flags? So much so he ignores my break up texts. I've tried 3x.
maggiemtn Posted December 29, 2020 Posted December 29, 2020 How long have you dated? Do you feel safe talking to him in person? If so, that’s usually the best way to get through, especially if you guys were serious. And once you do that, since he doesn’t have a track record of listening to you, just block him everywhere. Or you can just do that now since you’ve already told him. Did you specifically say something like “I’m done let’s break up” or did you leave the door open? Just slam it. It’s best for everyone involved, in my opinion.
Author Kristine Posted December 29, 2020 Author Posted December 29, 2020 I said I've thought about it, things aren't working, do not contact me. I barely see him. He only wants to come over for sex. We have hardly dated. And he's just wrong for me. In person isn't possible.
Miss Spider Posted December 29, 2020 Posted December 29, 2020 (edited) How long have you been dating? I support just sending a text then blocking him everywhere if he’s weird enough. Edited December 29, 2020 by Shortskirtslonglashes
maggiemtn Posted December 29, 2020 Posted December 29, 2020 2 hours ago, Kristine said: I said I've thought about it, things aren't working, do not contact me. I barely see him. He only wants to come over for sex. We have hardly dated. And he's just wrong for me. In person isn't possible. Oh okay, then you’ve already done enough I’d say. Just block him. 2
ExpatInItaly Posted December 29, 2020 Posted December 29, 2020 7 hours ago, Kristine said: I barely see him. He only wants to come over for sex. We have hardly dated. I wouldn't worry about him not responding to a break-up text, in that case. He doesn't seem to view this as a relationship anyway, so I'd just be done with it. 1
Author Kristine Posted December 31, 2020 Author Posted December 31, 2020 Well he called after but i ignored it. He met my mom because he barged in during a visit. He used to take me to breakfast before restaurants closed down. But honestly i saw red flags and tried breaking up twice before he wouldn't accept it. But now i went a step further.
d0nnivain Posted December 31, 2020 Posted December 31, 2020 You have broken up. Just block now. If he shows up, tell him to go away & that if he doesn't go away you will call the cops. 1
stillafool Posted December 31, 2020 Posted December 31, 2020 Easy - Block him and be done. I agree it's already over. 1
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