ThereSheGoes Posted December 30, 2020 Posted December 30, 2020 Yeah, I would love an update as well. On it's face, he sounds like he needs to be dumped. But....he could also be waiting on your present, OR was planning something big for you. But from reading the thread, he sounds like he's a piece of work as it is, so I doubt his reasoning is positive.
guest569 Posted December 31, 2020 Posted December 31, 2020 I would give it a bit more time and just say "you didn't get me a present.." and see what he says.?? 1
Allupinnit Posted December 31, 2020 Posted December 31, 2020 Dating for two years and no Christmas present? That's so incredibly thoughtless. 3
smackie9 Posted December 31, 2020 Posted December 31, 2020 On 12/29/2020 at 4:40 PM, Ruby Slippers said: Cry me a river. I just googled "best Christmas gift for girlfriend" and came up with more than 10 decent to good ideas in 5 seconds - jewelry, silk pillowcase, winter jacket, bath and body set, wine, house plant, perfume, flowers, coffee or tea, cute socks, candy, tickets to a show, loungewear, lingerie... the list goes on and on. By no means am I giving him excuses or accepting his behavior.....usually an action like this means there is a much deeper on going issue that we of course don't know about. We are only getting the OPs point of view, so as outsiders it's up to us to take a broader look at the situation.
d0nnivain Posted December 31, 2020 Posted December 31, 2020 @Lexxi Did you talk to him yet & tell him how lousy he made you feel? If as somebody else pointed out all your threads are about this guy's minimal to non-existent effort you have to face up to the fact that he just doesn't care. Knowing that you have options. You can accept being treated this way or you can dump his sorry butt. He won't change.
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