basscatcher Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 This is connected to my other link only in a different direction. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t72339/?highlight=padameckla Alright, I think this thread belongs in a different section but it still refers to dating. This man I found average looking has totally turned me onto his path. We have so much in common and this man seriously keeps me in line. But I am feeling too much in line. Geeze... For the first time since I was 16 years old I met a man who is refraining from being sexually intimate with me. I am feeling frustrated.... How is a woman in her 30s full of life and hormones suppose to control herself when she is with a man who totally turns her on, teases her, temps her, and plays with her. She always seduced to get what she wants. I mean really:confused: , I have never had a man hold me off in many many years. When I deceide I want to go to that level I have never been turned down. He told me that he usually keeps sexual distance from the woman he is dating for about a month before physically doing much with her. He told me that he has went further with me in a short period of time then he has with anyone in a long long time.. He said he wants to wait awile before doing the deed. This man is remarkable.. He has control and will-power over his sexual urges. He tells me its not easy for him to refrain but its a rule of his. Damn I get frustrated.. I'm a hot-blooded woman and he has me like melted butter and he just keeps me on warm. Frustrating. How am I suppose to control myself when I have no self-control.. I have made comments about it to him and he just hugs me and laughs.. Ohhh I hate the power play but I love it... I have a feeling he will win my heart... Who says average looking and nice guys will finish last. He has me on my toes, he has kept me interested, I feel more respected by him then I have since I was 16. I believe my concern, when I originally posted about this man, has faded away. I am putting my dating service matches on hold to see where he and I will go. He, so-far, is worth my $300 dating investment and much more... But still how do I control my urges?
westernxer Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 Oil painting is a good outlet (as long as you don't use your body as a canvas).
Author basscatcher Posted October 14, 2005 Author Posted October 14, 2005 Oil painting is a good outlet (as long as you don't use your body as a canvas). Hey, that would be a turn on too. Can you imagin breast paintings. I get into things like that and I would turn it into something sexual if I had the opportunity. Nope that won't work. hahaha
Author basscatcher Posted October 14, 2005 Author Posted October 14, 2005 GOD HELP ME, I have sex on the brain today.... Was out with him till 2am this morning then got up and had to be to work by 9am.. FRUSTRATED....
ThumbingMyWay Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 patience grasshopper.... use your jack rabbit after he leaves to go home....
Art_Critic Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 You are answering your own questions.. This guy has you flipping around in circles and he did it with romance not looks.. Just give it up to him and you won't be so frustrated.. Just don't psych yourself out about the expectations of the sexual episode.. Go into it with the same open mind you have used so far
Author basscatcher Posted October 14, 2005 Author Posted October 14, 2005 patience grasshopper.... use your jack rabbit after he leaves to go home.... TMW-- Me?! I'm a man woman not a hand or toy woman......
ThumbingMyWay Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 GOD HELP ME, I have sex on the brain today.... that was me yesterday...but since its friday....can we use this thread as the FRIDAY SEX thread.... :laugh:
Author basscatcher Posted October 14, 2005 Author Posted October 14, 2005 that was me yesterday...but since its friday....can we use this thread as the FRIDAY SEX thread.... :laugh: Surely, Go for it. Damn I'm gonna be in trouble for the Hockey Game tonight. Geeeze louise.... I will definetly need a stiff drink at the end of the day... and my Landscaper too.
ThumbingMyWay Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 TMW-- Me?! I'm a man woman not a hand or toy woman...... yeah sure..... landscraper?
Author basscatcher Posted October 14, 2005 Author Posted October 14, 2005 Just give it up to him and you won't be so frustrated.. Just don't psych yourself out about the expectations of the sexual episode.. Go into it with the same open mind you have used so far Firstly, I wanna give it up to him he is stopping at the door of the duty... (good catholic boy beginnings..) I don't have expectations of the deed I just want that connection with him.. I have a very open mind with him but my desires are driving me crazy. I'm not use to being turned down.
Author basscatcher Posted October 14, 2005 Author Posted October 14, 2005 yeah sure..... landscraper? Truely, No toys or hands for me with myself. I like the real deal and thats it. Yes landscaper, He is self employed.. He loves is Bobcat and plow in the winter.. Hehe I love a rugged man who cleans up nice...
ThumbingMyWay Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 Truely, No toys or hands for me with myself. I like the real deal and thats it. OK pada....no wonder why your ready to jump his bone Yes landscaper, He is self employed.. He loves is Bobcat and plow in the winter.. Hehe I love a rugged man who cleans up nice... oh...thats his job...i see
Author basscatcher Posted October 14, 2005 Author Posted October 14, 2005 OK pada....no wonder why your ready to jump his bone Is that so bad? I'm a Hot-Blooded woman!! Its been a few months.. Prime..
ThumbingMyWay Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 Is that so bad? I'm a Hot-Blooded woman!! Its been a few months.. Prime.. NOPE it is not bad....but a few months....DAMM...I;d be all backed up too!
Author basscatcher Posted October 14, 2005 Author Posted October 14, 2005 NOPE it is not bad....but a few months....DAMM...I;d be all backed up too! Oh yeah, the way that man kisses me and touches me, It wont take long... the drain wont feel clogged anymore.. the roto rooter will break it free.
ThumbingMyWay Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 Oh yeah, the way that man kisses me and touches me, It wont take long... the drain wont feel clogged anymore.. the roto rooter will break it free. :lmao:
Art_Critic Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 Oh yeah, the way that man kisses me and touches me, It wont take long... the drain wont feel clogged anymore.. the roto rooter will break it free. Kinda the same as DSB that guys get ..deadly sperm buildup.
Author basscatcher Posted October 14, 2005 Author Posted October 14, 2005 Kinda the same as DSB that guys get ..deadly sperm buildup. I will wither and dry up soon. My Gosh The lilly of the Valley wont be so prurty anymore. Her essence of sweetness will ferment. The pollen will blow away and .........................
Author basscatcher Posted October 14, 2005 Author Posted October 14, 2005 Damn 30+ woman sex drive. I need brakes.....
Author basscatcher Posted October 14, 2005 Author Posted October 14, 2005 Follow this link into here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t72714/ Woooooooooooooooooooooooo
Outcast Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 You yourself said you keep ending up in bed too soon. Having sex screws your brain as well as your body. It gets the bonding hormones going, which often leaves women addicted to men who are bad for them. I suggest you learn to enjoy the fine art of masturbation and thank your lucky stars you have found a man who's sensible enough to understand that getting into bed too soon is a pitfall people ought to try to avoid in order to not make mistakes over and over and over again.
slubberdegullion Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 Damn 30+ woman sex drive. I need brakes..... Pada; My Friday night plans disintegrated. Doing anything later?
Author basscatcher Posted October 14, 2005 Author Posted October 14, 2005 You yourself said you keep ending up in bed too soon. Having sex screws your brain as well as your body. It gets the bonding hormones going, which often leaves women addicted to men who are bad for them. I suggest you learn to enjoy the fine art of masturbation and thank your lucky stars you have found a man who's sensible enough to understand that getting into bed too soon is a pitfall people ought to try to avoid in order to not make mistakes over and over and over again. Words of wisdom.. Tks. I agree with you.. But it is very hard.
Author basscatcher Posted October 14, 2005 Author Posted October 14, 2005 Pada; My Friday night plans disintegrated. Doing anything later? Maybe meetin up with my Landscaper for the MINNESOTA WILDS HOCKEY game tonight. heheh kick back a couple drinks and enjoy the game and company. If I was free I'd say hope a plane... Opps maybe not, they are on strike.
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