how to turn conversation more sexual etc?

[fred123]

2 part question. talking to a girl online for a month who lives in Ireland (im from england).

Should you turn the conversation more sexual?

and if so how?

[basil67]

Are you talking as friends or sharing a common interest or in a romantic sense?  

[Ami1uwant]

Ate you wanting to cyber with her? Are you trying to see if she’s interested in you?

[Wiseman2]

3 hours ago, fred123 said:

2 part question. talking to a girl online for a month who lives in Ireland (im from england).

Should you turn the conversation more sexual?

and if so how?

Ok, is this through a dating site?

You don't "turn it more sexual" without the risk of looking creepy.

You haven't even met, so if you want to try flirting a bit to see if there's any dating potential, that's fine.

[MeadowFlower]

4 hours ago, fred123 said:

Should you turn the conversation more sexual?

and if so how?

Please don't. Unless you're looking for something casual. But if you are wanting to date her or are interested in being in a relationship with, then don't turn the conversation sexual.

[d0nnivain]

Don't. 

Meet in person 1st when the lock downs are over.  See if there is a spark.

At best all you can do now is add in a soft term of endearment like honey, hon, sweetie or dear.  Even those may cause a nausea in some  Anything else makes you come across as a pushy guy who only wants one thing.

[elaine567]

Ok so yet another long distance "pen pal" of yours.
Why do you continue with doing this when everyone has told you after each "disaster" you relate that dating local is what you need to be doing.
This Irish girl, has chosen you for a reason and that reason is she can keep you at arm's length. She is safe, there are many miles and a sea between the two of you... 
If there is no flirty banter or romantic interest shown after a month then you can take it she  has no intention of taking it any further with you. Bringing sex into the conversation now will likely send her running for the hills.

[Miss Spider]

Too weird, in my opinion. I think escalation is best done in person. If you can’t do it in person, that’s a sign that it’s a bad time to escalate. 

[smackie9]

If you ain't got game, don't do it.

[Millennial]

Talk about her appearance - especially the things you like. You need to objectify her somewhat.

It's very easy to start off cutesy and go to sexual.

[Ruby_Red]

2 hours ago, Millennial said:

Talk about her appearance - especially the things you like. You need to objectify her somewhat.

It's very easy to start off cutesy and go to sexual.

Yes - if you want to get rid of her. 
Sexting is already awkward if you’re in a relationship, let alone with a stranger. I get it - men are horny, but getting sexual over the phone/computer too fast just feels forced. Don’t do it. It’s gross. 

[BaileyB]

Unless you want cyber sex only with this girl, don’t make it sexual.

If you are hoping to meet her someday, possibly date her someday, keep it casual and respectful. Trying to turn online communication sexual with a woman you have never met at best feels desperate, at worst - it’s creepy.