Alpacalia Posted December 31, 2020 Posted December 31, 2020 4 hours ago, zincmagnesium8 said: I messaged her a few moments ago and we both said we weren't feeling the spark. Was happy to hear that. I think I would have been willing to keep it going casually for a while to see if any connection formed, but I probably would have been wasting both of our time. We agreed to stay in touch though, which I hope actually happens as she's a really nice girl. I was referring to casual dating. 4 hours ago, zincmagnesium8 said: I messaged her a few moments ago and we both said we weren't feeling the spark. Was happy to hear that. I think I would have been willing to keep it going casually for a while to see if any connection formed, but I probably would have been wasting both of our time. We agreed to stay in touch though, which I hope actually happens as she's a really nice girl. Sorry this one didn't work out but I'm glad to hear that it ended amicably.
Emilie Jolie Posted January 1, 2021 Posted January 1, 2021 On 12/31/2020 at 3:33 PM, zincmagnesium8 said: We agreed to stay in touch though, which I hope actually happens as she's a really nice girl. Sounds like a good plan. Good friends are as precious as good partners L(or almost anyway). Glad it's got a mature 'happy ending' of sorts .
JRabbit Posted January 4, 2021 Posted January 4, 2021 On 12/21/2020 at 10:23 AM, zincmagnesium8 said: I get that, but can attraction not develop over time? I do find myself only going on one or two dates with girls and then giving up because I'm not falling head over heels for them. I'm trying to take a better approach to dating but I'm not sure if this is the right way! Should there always be an initial insatiable sexual attraction? Highly recommend reading the book "Attached" Yes it can grow over time, and usually that really intense feeling you are chasing is actually the one you should run from lol
JRabbit Posted January 4, 2021 Posted January 4, 2021 On 12/31/2020 at 9:10 AM, zincmagnesium8 said: I would be after something serious as well. I really don't like casual hook-ups if that's what you mean. I suggest using a different app than Tinder if that is the case.
Interstellar Posted January 4, 2021 Posted January 4, 2021 (edited) What a problem to have! Thousands of guys would love to be in your position. Do you feel even just a tiny bit of attraction to her? if yes, I’d give it one more if not then just say farewell, you’re a great girl but. Edit: Nevermind, I jus re-read it. Edited January 4, 2021 by Interstellar
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