Why do I always find the bad guys but not yet found any decent guy at all

[Candacesims]

I already tried online dating on a website called abled love .it for disabled people.  I have seen to find it just guy message me and these type of guys come off a weirdo or too old for  me . when I do look at user profile I always find some users don't have a profile pic and other time they don't have a  bio . I notice that some guys don't even put in  statues in their profile   that just lot a fake profile . I also tried plenty of fish,Eharmony,Match and trying to bumble . I am not sure what do . I did pay for membership for one dating site  but hasn't been working out at all .I, all I keep getting guys that are too far way from me, or they don't a learning disability . 

Edited December 17, 2020 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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[Wiseman2]

On the paid dating apps, make sure you set up your search criteria for age and location.

Do not respond to incomplete profiles.

Only message people in your criteria as far as your location and age.

[Candacesims]

26 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

On the paid dating apps, make sure you set up your search criteria for age and location.

Do not respond to incomplete profiles.

Only message people in your criteria as far as your location and age.

I did this to and doesn't change a thing

[Gaeta]

How long have you been on those dating sites? It takes time. Sometimes it will take 2-3 years before finding someone suited for us. 

[Candacesims]

5 hours ago, Gaeta said:

How long have you been on those dating sites? It takes time. Sometimes it will take 2-3 years before finding someone suited for us. 

it not is on very younger . seem to be getting scam , profile are not compete . yet they still message me . 

[Candacesims]

1 minute ago, Candacesims said:

it not is on very long and it just been a lot werido and just getting older men message or just men that is too far way from my area of town

 

[Gaeta]

Then give it time.

We all deal with scammers, weirdos and profile with no pictures when we do online dating. You have to be patient and filter through it. 

[Candacesims]

14 hours ago, Gaeta said:

Then give it time.

We all deal with scammers, weirdos and profile with no pictures when we do online dating. You have to be patient and filter through it. 

that what I been doing and still end up with  No  pic profile and uncompleted profile .