Author ironpony Posted December 16, 2020 Author Posted December 16, 2020 (edited) Oh okay, I thought since we had a short term relationship before, that she would be escaping more in depth questions though. Or maybe at her age now, she would also be looking to settle down more and thus ask more in depth questions sooner. Edited December 16, 2020 by ironpony
Emilie Jolie Posted December 16, 2020 Posted December 16, 2020 (edited) All of this is possible, but ultimately you don't know anything at this point! It's hard to go with the flow sometimes for sure, but it'll be easier for you, I think :). Try not to over complicate things. Edited December 16, 2020 by Emilie Jolie
Author ironpony Posted December 17, 2020 Author Posted December 17, 2020 Oh okay thanks. Well it's just that in this case, she is going to want to catch up like she said. So I thought that meant asking more questions than usual. But do you think I should tell her also that I am austistic sooner, compared to other women before, since waiting seems to have turned women off in past experience, like I talked about before in this thread?
Emilie Jolie Posted December 17, 2020 Posted December 17, 2020 That's up to you. You are best placed to decide when you feel most comfortable disclosing. Only disclose when you are ready; once it's out, you can't take it back, so you need to be prepared for the fact she may not accept it. Also, you're the same person, with or without disclosing it. If it's important for you to tell her, then do so. If you want to wait until the timing's right for you, then that's fine too. You are the master of your ship, you control decisions affecting your life your way. 1
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