Major684 Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 Hey guys, I need some advice! Ok heres the situation... I'm in the navy turned 21 recently so I'm just recently going to bars and stuff. Well Last saturday me and 4 of my friends went to this bar in a college town. Well after having fun dancing to the live music one of my buddies spots 2 girls sitting by themselves...so he asks me what should i go up and say and I was like just say whatever comes to your mind. Well I go back to what I was doing and later look over and notice that he's talking to one of them then starts dancing with her so i'm like Hmm... let me go over and talk to the other one. So I went over there and introduced myself to both girls. Then start focusing on the other girl. I start asking her about herself where she's from what she does...ect. And then I tell her what I do how I'm in the navy and I'm a corpsman(medical guy) and stuff I like to do and where i'm from the usual. So before I know it there kicking us out of the bar becuase it's closing so we had to talk for about 3 hours or so. We ask them if there gonna go somewhere else and they said pretty much everything closes around this time so then we walk them to their car. On the way i'm still talking to this girl and just feeling her we have alot of stuff in common. So we get to their car and I get the courage to say "hey would you like to do something sometime" and she said ya I would so i asked her for her number and i put it in my phone. She was watching me making sure I got it right. Well oh i forgot to mention these girls are sisters. Well anyways I give her a hug bye and then we drive back home. Well monday I didn't have to work so i decided to call her this is 2 days later. I call her about 11 becuase she's probaly on her break from class or soemthing. No answer so I left a message asking her if she had time tongiht if she would like to go to dinner. I totally forgot to leave my number but it's her cell so it should of shown my number as a missed call. Anyways still no responce so I decided to go out to watch some monday night football at a local bar w/my friends. WEll my other friend that met her sister called her to that night and she called him back. She said her sister goes straight from school to work. Which she mentioned as I was talking to her how she is always busy and hardly goes out ect. WEll at like 11 i decide to call her again thinking she's off of work....lol by this time i'm probaly hammered. I leave a message but it was probaly hard to hear since i was at a bar. I said hey just seeing how work went call me back if ur not too tired. never left my number again assuming she has it. Well it's wed night and she still hasn't called me back should i wait longer or give up??? She did say the best time to reach her is on the weekends.....help me out guys i'm a rookie when it's comes to getting girls at bars and phone ettiquete. HELP WHAT SHOULD I DO!
kitkat826 Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 I know what I would probably do if I were you. I wouldn't want to call her anymore for fear of seeming desperate. But at the same time I would try to get more of a scoop on her from my friend, the one who's seeing her sister. I wouldn't make any more of a move unless I had definite information from the sister or they arranged a double date of sorts, or she actually called me back. Again, this is what I actually would *do* if I were in my shoes, not necessarily what I should do. I don't have enough brain energy to think at that level tonight.
J J Posted October 20, 2005 Posted October 20, 2005 You don't meet nice girls at a bar. Your wasting your time and you are looking to get hurt. move on.
justagirl1121 Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 Why the hell not aren't there nice girls at bars? I go to bars and I'm a nice girl! The friends i go out with are nice girls!
allaboutchoices Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 You don't meet nice girls at a bar. Your wasting your time and you are looking to get hurt. move on. ??!! So only whores and desperate wives go to bars? I consider my self a nice girl and yeah, I go out. So do my other friends who are girls and who are nice. I don't go to church so I don't see many other options for people to meet me - the nice girl:rolleyes: I agree with the 'don't call her again until she contacts you' post. It might come across a bit desperate. Give her few days, she might be curious. Edit: Oops, sorry, I forgot to check out the date of the first post. Any update on this?
steve_3327 Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 i agree. i used to go to the bar quite abit looking for a girlfriend but yeah thats a no. even my friends at work said no man dont go there to get a girl. all you will get from a bar is a one night stand and possibly hiv/aids
allaboutchoices Posted October 23, 2005 Posted October 23, 2005 i agree. i used to go to the bar quite abit looking for a girlfriend but yeah thats a no. even my friends at work said no man dont go there to get a girl. all you will get from a bar is a one night stand and possibly hiv/aids Um...I go to bars. Not to look for guys, but if I meet one there, I won't toss it just because it happened in the bar. I happen NOT to have HIV or any other STDs. I also don't think I'm very different from many other girls. Just because we like to have fun and beer doesn't mean we are not nice.
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