Jump to content

I miss him. What do I do?


While the thread author can add an update and reopen discussion, this thread was last posted in over a month ago. Want to continue the conversation? Feel free to start a new thread instead!

Recommended Posts

Posted

My ex is a drug dealer and murderer but I miss him so much. We lost contact several years ago. I signed up on some dating sites to find him. What should I do?

Posted
8 minutes ago, Monica-01 said:

My ex is a drug dealer and murderer but I miss him so much. We lost contact several years ago. I signed up on some dating sites to find him. What should I do?

I'd check the prison population, not a dating app. 

Why do you want such a vile man back?  Figure that out & it should help you to move forward to a better choice in mates.  

  • Like 1
  • Thanks 1
Posted

You should seek the help of a psychologist.  

  • Like 2
  • Thanks 1
Posted
47 minutes ago, Trail Blazer said:

You should seek the help of a psychologist.  

This. In the nicest way.

  • Thanks 1
  • Author
Posted
Just now, JRabbit said:

This. In the nicest way.

Should I start a new life somehow? I am on disability benefits and mostly at home. And I know he’s bad for me but I think of him day and night I cannot get him out of my mind 

  • Author
Posted

A little background on me: I am a 29 year old ex prostitute who’s now on disability benefits. I’m thinking of going back into prostitution because he always checks the Escort sites to see if I’m there. Then he can find me. Or do I start a new life by volunteering and looking for a job. I’m so lost. What should I do? Please help me

Posted
4 minutes ago, Monica-01 said:

Should I start a new life somehow? I am on disability benefits and mostly at home. And I know he’s bad for me but I think of him day and night I cannot get him out of my mind 

I highly recommend reading the book Attached.

Under no circumstance should you seek this man out.

  • Like 1
  • Thanks 1
Posted

I couldn't think of a worse career choice in the middle of a pandemic than prostitution! 😳

  • Like 2
  • Thanks 1
  • Author
Posted

Can

Just now, Trail Blazer said:

I couldn't think of a worse career choice in the middle of a pandemic than prostitution! 😳

Can you elaborate? 

Posted (edited)
9 minutes ago, Monica-01 said:

Should I start a new life somehow? I am on disability benefits and mostly at home. And I know he’s bad for me but I think of him day and night I cannot get him out of my mind 

You think about him because you have no other options.  Alone is better than with him.   

Find healthier ways to keep yourself occupied.  He is a very poor choice indeed.  

When you do feel better & are off disability get yourself a better / safer job.  

Edited by d0nnivain
  • Like 2
Posted
3 minutes ago, Monica-01 said:

Can

Can you elaborate? 

Isn't is self-explanatory?  Coronavirus disease, COVID-19, SARS-CoV-2?  Any of these terms ring a bell??

  • Like 3
  • Thanks 1
Posted

Is this for real? You’re a prostitute, he’s a murderer?  
 

Listen; you pursue this man and he’s likely to add you to his list of crimes. Your life is worth a lot more than any feelings you have for this man. 
 

You need help. You don’t need him. 
 

  • Like 2
×
×
  • Create New...