FMW Posted December 11, 2020 Share Posted December 11, 2020 3 hours ago, alphamale said: where I meet a lot of chicks I wasn't for a second doubting that you meet plenty of women. But since you wrote 16 hours ago, alphamale said: most of the women I meet (who are in their 40s and 50s) want to be exclusive by date three and married at the two month mark I was saying maybe you need to select from a different pool. Or only date the under 40s 🙂 My friends over 40 for the most part like to take a while to get to know a guy and none are too interested in marriage, period. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted December 11, 2020 Share Posted December 11, 2020 1 hour ago, FMW said: I wasn't for a second doubting that you meet plenty of women. But since you wrote I was saying maybe you need to select from a different pool. Or only date the under 40s 🙂 My friends over 40 for the most part like to take a while to get to know a guy and none are too interested in marriage, period. There are few dateable women under 40. Most are still married and raising children... Link to post Share on other sites
mortensorchid Posted December 12, 2020 Share Posted December 12, 2020 On 12/10/2020 at 11:24 PM, alphamale said: Hmmm most of the women I meet (who are in their 40s and 50s) want to be exclusive by date three and married at the two month mark. It’s really disconcerting... People accuse me all the time of being far too serious. I am not, I am practical. I don't doubt that you have had experiences like this, many women are like this. I knew a gal who let this loser jailbird move into her house after knowing him for ONE WEEK! They were engaged to be married the week afterwards! When infatuation wore off (plus the fact that she is/was an unstable person and he was a complete dummy) she threw him out and she wants to pretend it never happened. I am not ashamed of the fact that I am serious because I end up being the person who's always right in the end. You don't want to be practical? You don't want to do things the stupid way? Go right ahead, you'll loose. Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Spider Posted December 14, 2020 Share Posted December 14, 2020 (edited) On 12/12/2020 at 10:56 AM, mortensorchid said: People accuse me all the time of being far too serious. I am not, I am practical. I don't doubt that you have had experiences like this, many women are like this. I knew a gal who let this loser jailbird move into her house after knowing him for ONE WEEK! They were engaged to be married the week afterwards! When infatuation wore off (plus the fact that she is/was an unstable person and he was a complete dummy) she threw him out and she wants to pretend it never happened. I am not ashamed of the fact that I am serious because I end up being the person who's always right in the end. You don't want to be practical? You don't want to do things the stupid way? Go right ahead, you'll loose. . You can be easy-going, light-hearted, and “not too serious” in certain instances, yet still be practical and responsible. Too serious all the time is just not fun. Maybe you end up being right in the end because of a self-fulfilling prophecy. If a person never lets others past the stony, austere fortress they’ve built around themself, then of course they end up being right when people don’t get close. Edited December 14, 2020 by Shortskirtslonglashes Link to post Share on other sites
kismetkismet Posted December 14, 2020 Share Posted December 14, 2020 For me it was usually around 4 - 8 weeks of seeing each other at least 2-3 times a week. My husband and I became exclusive after 3 weeks though. I'm so confused by the "talking to" stage that I keep hearing about, it makes me feel old haha. Is that pre-dating when you're not actually hanging out in person yet? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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