no-one Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 I'm going out w/ this girl. We just started going out. Last sunday was our first date. It was as long as the movie, her mom called twice and wanted her to get home during the movie. It went ok, I guess, considering how short it was and that it was our first date. We didn't kiss or hug or anything. She just said bye after telling me she would talk to me monday about setting up another date. All this week it's kinda been like we're not even going out, we smile and say hi to eachother in the halls and sometimes will talk. But that is pretty much it. I'm not really sure if anyone knows that me and her are going out. On tuesday I asked her about seeing another movie, when she didn't get back to me monday, she told me she wasn't very sure b/c the movie times weren't up or something like that. On wednesday she came up to me and started talking to me and I asked her about just setting up a time then we could pick a movie off of that time or something (I know that I probably look like a desperate idiot by now). She said she had to go to hang out w/ some friends on Friday or saturday, they didn't really set up the time. It was supposed to be a for a friend's birthday. From what I understood she told me she wouldn't have any money, I told her I'd pay for everything and she said that she really didn't know, that she didn't like people paying for her or borrowing money. Which is true from what I could tell hanging out w/ her. I just told her to let me know. It seems that she likes me, but she doesn't want to get close to me. I dunno it's really wierd to me. She waves at me in the halls and sometimes smiles but when I try to set up a date, it kinda seems like she doesn't want to go.... Do any of u guys know why she would act like that?
JS17 Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 She is sending you mixed signals no doubt. I'm not sure everyone here would agree but my suggestion is to confront her and just ask her what she wants. Does she want to go out with you or not? Either way should be fine but she needs to stop sending you mixed signals. Or you could just let things go and see what she does.
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JS17 Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 I can barely get my laptop to turn AND I'm a 28 year old female so no, I didn't know what 1337 meant. But now that I know I can sleep soundly. sorry for the thread hijack no-one
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Author no-one Posted October 14, 2005 Author Posted October 14, 2005 She is sending you mixed signals no doubt. I'm not sure everyone here would agree but my suggestion is to confront her and just ask her what she wants. Does she want to go out with you or not? Either way should be fine but she needs to stop sending you mixed signals. Or you could just let things go and see what she does. thanks JS17, I'll try that.
CurvyGurl Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 Well... confused. You had one date with her. She's not acting like your girlfriend because she isn't. You're going to have to go on a few more dates, if you can get her to agree to going on them. If I like a guy, and we just start going out, I am excited to go out with him again. 'I have to hang out with friends that night' would never cross my lips. I don't think she is interested, personally.
fundamental Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 You guys just went out to the movies, she isn't your girlfriend yet. You should back off a bit, pay her less attention and start talking with other girls. Let her make the next date with you. You need to show her that in order to got out with you, you would need to squeeze her into your busy schedule. That means you need to make yourself busy. Right now you seem too available.
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