Next Steps, hookup confusion

[Emmylou_H]

@elaine567he  messaged me first 

[smackie9]

The best thing you can do is take things in your life one day at a time and organize priorities. Do positive things for yourself, be kind, be grateful for what you do have. The more you grow the more you will blossom, and people will be drawn to that, even him.

[Wiseman2]

13 hours ago, Emmylou_H said:

he  messaged me first 

Think of this encounter as a first step out of a long overdue departure from an unhappy relationship/living arrangement.

[Emmylou_H]

@smackie9thank you so much for that response. I have been trying to do this now because I recently read something very similar to what you wrote. I think it is an excellent idea to focus on myself, my growth and priorities. It’s a win-win situation because regardless of the outcome with this person, I will still be stronger and happier because I put work into myself!