Fletch Lives Posted November 29, 2020 Posted November 29, 2020 22 hours ago, smackie9 said: are you are?? That's what I always ask people........."Are you are?!" As for the opening post.........I don't know about dat dude, mang, but I'm worth the drive! 2
smackie9 Posted November 29, 2020 Posted November 29, 2020 2 hours ago, Fletch Lives said: That's what I always ask people........."Are you are?!" As for the opening post.........I don't know about dat dude, mang, but I'm worth the drive! 2
poppyfields Posted November 29, 2020 Posted November 29, 2020 (edited) 2 hours ago, Fletch Lives said: That's what I always ask people........."Are you are?!" Lol, it's posts like this that make me miss the LS laughing emoji! Too funny. Edited November 29, 2020 by poppyfields 1
smackie9 Posted November 29, 2020 Posted November 29, 2020 (edited) 26 minutes ago, poppyfields said: Lol, it's posts like this that make me miss the LS laughing emoji! Too funny. Ya why don't they bring that back....did it hurt someone's feewwings?? seriously? Edited November 29, 2020 by smackie9 2
poppyfields Posted November 29, 2020 Posted November 29, 2020 5 minutes ago, smackie9 said: Ya why don't they bring that back....did it hurt someone's feewwings?? seriously? There was a thread about it in the support section, apparently some were using it to mock/bully/laugh at rather than it's intended purpose - laugh with. Or simply laugh when something was funny. So Paul decided to get rid.
Ruby Slippers Posted November 29, 2020 Posted November 29, 2020 I think there are generally two camps on the subject. I'm in the camp that thinks a higher level of logistical effort could be worth it for the right person. Many of the best love stories are about how they worked through many obstacles to get together and stay together. When the love is real, this logistical stuff eventually becomes inconsequential. 2
Author mortensorchid Posted November 30, 2020 Author Posted November 30, 2020 I am going to say yes to it. Why not? We just sit there and hope against hope that IT will happen. And most OLDs are one time encounters anyway. I will tell him at our next conversation that I am agreeing to it. 1
alphamale Posted November 30, 2020 Posted November 30, 2020 11 hours ago, mortensorchid said: Well it's all about conflicting information isn't it? Some people say yes, others say no. He asked if I would want to meet this weekend, he wants to drive here. I haven't given my answer on it yet. One has to take risks in life. If you have a good feeling about him then say yes...
Chilli Posted November 30, 2020 Posted November 30, 2020 (edited) 9 hours ago, Ruby Slippers said: I think there are generally two camps on the subject. I'm in the camp that thinks a higher level of logistical effort could be worth it for the right person. Many of the best love stories are about how they worked through many obstacles to get together and stay together. When the love is real, this logistical stuff eventually becomes inconsequential. Yeppppppp, exactly right. But l don't think too many people in this forum actually even understand what love is tbh. lf you haven't found it round the corner,didn't she say this guys 50s, well he's had his best yrs whereever he is and hasn't found it. Of course you'd go a pissy 2hr drive, or do they just keep banging their head against the wall and gettin what they always got , with what's left ? Can't even comprehend that logic . Not to say that in this case he doesn't even know her , but just sayin. ps , good for you op , good luck. Edited November 30, 2020 by Chilli 1
Wiseman2 Posted November 30, 2020 Posted November 30, 2020 Seems like a self-defeating long shot. Unavailable people choose other unavailable people. Or one-shot situations or deliberately choose situations that are bound to disappoint and fail. Hard treadmill to get off of without help and change
Miss Spider Posted December 6, 2020 Posted December 6, 2020 (edited) Good luck Edited December 6, 2020 by Shortskirtslonglashes
Miss Spider Posted December 6, 2020 Posted December 6, 2020 On 11/30/2020 at 1:17 AM, Wiseman2 said: Unavailable people choose other unavailable people. Or one-shot situations or deliberately choose situations that are bound to disappoint and fail. Or desperate times call for desperate measures. 1
Chilli Posted December 6, 2020 Posted December 6, 2020 So did you meet him one way or another op , how was ?
Author mortensorchid Posted December 9, 2020 Author Posted December 9, 2020 (edited) I agreed to it, he was all stoked about it that I had said yes. But ... I haven't heard from him since. That was 2 days ago, I sent him an iM through Facebook asking how he was and if we were to arrange a meeting, nothing. He reads my Facebook updates, and he hasn't blocked me. Ah well, life goes on. Next. Edited December 9, 2020 by mortensorchid Additional information
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