legrtova Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 Ugh, so this is an interesting outcome... Based on the email I received few days ago, I figured out that the W is on LS reading my posts (I wasn't exactly trying to hide, she knows my addy from emails....yeah I know, I should have come up with some different addy). I'm not sure if she's been a member, or if she is just trying to 'snoop' on me...wouldn't be the first time I was googled. It just makes me wonder what the heck?! Why coming back for more? She now knows a LOT more info than she or anyone would ever want to know. I feel for her, I wish she could just move on. The sad thing is...obviously she doesn't trust her H at all since she has to find out stuff from the I-net as opposed to ask him. Do I feel exposed? No, not really. This is my side of the story...but woman, you need to move on! Anyone has had a similiar experience? Guess I'm done bragging about my xMM...it's about time anyway...
LucreziaBorgia Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 I've seen it happen at least one other time since I was here.
TUDOR Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 Yep seen it happen twice sense I have been here. Not everyone will know it is going on unless they know what they are seeing.
RecordProducer Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 If you think that she is reading your posts then stop hurting her by posting details. After all, you let her know you're on LS as I understood. So why rubbing it in her face? I know you're hurt too, hun, but how would you feel in her shoes? YOU should move on too.
legrtova Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 RP, no, I did not let her know I was on here. I have stopped posting detailes and I asked for my posts to be removed. I wish she has never read any of it, I also wish I used more caution and used common sense. In the 'reaching out' desperate act I just threw everything out there. What I do not understand is that she researches me everywhere, and found me here, too. I have moved on and I hope she can as well...I just don't think that she needed to know all the things I posted about.
Katch22 Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 Wow, I don't know what to say! I'm new to this site but I was concerned about that myself about the w finding out more then she already knows. I feel horrible already for what has gone on..... Please read my post "Here a real DOOZY" it's my story of my asorted a w/mm. Sorry about her finding the posts that sucks!!
Myexperience Posted October 18, 2005 Posted October 18, 2005 Hi, I am a BS who recently found out that the OW was posting on another site and was able to read her posts about the A she had currently been having with my H. We recently went through a d-day and finding her posts was the therapy that I needed to recover from the hurt and pain I felt. It was like a bandaid to the pain I was feeling. I don't pity her at all she knew my H was M but yet she still pursued him and he followed (horny bastard). My H told me that the only reason he was in the A was because of the sex and from reading her post she wanted more but he never gave it to her. She wanted him to be in a R with her and he only showed up to lay her in the bed and then leave. (Those are her own words) I'm not saying that it was ok for him to do what he did but I am saying that knowing and being able to see it in print made MY OWN recovery alot easier. Good luck to you all in any R that you may be in!
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