Zona Posted November 29, 2020 Posted November 29, 2020 Affairs with the boss are common. One recent survey showed that 27% of women (similar number of men) admit to having an affair with their boss. Keep your eyes wide open. Your gut is rarely wrong. Don't confront until you have hard evidence, otherwise you will blow your cover, and if anything IS happening it will go further underground.
Wiseman2 Posted November 29, 2020 Posted November 29, 2020 6 hours ago, Mook77 said: How did two male jackets dissapear from her car? And why Did her boss take them? Go use those Subway perks and talk about your suspicions.
Crazelnut Posted November 29, 2020 Posted November 29, 2020 You need to take a day off work and do some snooping. Put a VAR in her car. Follow her to work in the morning. Show up 30 mins before she's supposed to get off. 1
Author Mook77 Posted November 29, 2020 Author Posted November 29, 2020 1 hour ago, Crazelnut said: You need to take a day off work and do some snooping. Put a VAR in her car. Follow her to work in the morning. Show up 30 mins before she's supposed to get off. Are there red flags?
Wiseman2 Posted November 29, 2020 Posted November 29, 2020 2 hours ago, Crazelnut said: Put a VAR in her car. Follow her to work in the morning. Show up 30 mins before she's supposed to get off. On 11/26/2020 at 2:09 AM, Mook77 said: Work starts at 630 am. She gets to work at 530 am. After dropping me off. We have selected to use one car to save on costs.
Crazelnut Posted November 30, 2020 Posted November 30, 2020 23 hours ago, Mook77 said: Are there red flags? Yes.
Crazelnut Posted November 30, 2020 Posted November 30, 2020 OP can borrow a car or take an Uber. If you want to know what a suspicious acting spouse is up to, you have to do a little observation.
Author Mook77 Posted December 1, 2020 Author Posted December 1, 2020 well today I dropped her off and will pick her up in the evening. They have closed one exit to leave her job but have left three others open. It's a huge warehouse company with like 1000 people. so she asked me not to park car where I normally park it a way from the building but facing it but to park in the lane to the exit a distance away cause with that exit shut she says we won't be able to get out on time. Didn't make sense to me at all
trident_2020 Posted December 1, 2020 Posted December 1, 2020 So ask her to clarify it for you. Sounds to me like you've got issues communicating. 1
Wiseman2 Posted December 1, 2020 Posted December 1, 2020 56 minutes ago, Mook77 said: They have closed one exit to leave her job but have left three others open. It's a huge warehouse company with like 1000 people. Ok, so they had an exit issue. Is that suspicious to you? What are you thinking? In the time from leaving the alternative exit to the time she got to your car she was up to something?
Uruktopi Posted December 1, 2020 Posted December 1, 2020 On 11/19/2020 at 7:17 PM, Mook77 said: my woman has a crush on her boss. She's told me All considered, said crush seems to me to be the only thing that would rise my eyebrow. Not necesarily a sign of infidelity but a potential fertile soil for it. The "she told me" part seems a s*** test to get your attention. All other "flags" are weak ones....if they are really "flags" 1
Author Mook77 Posted December 1, 2020 Author Posted December 1, 2020 my thinking is...... You don't want me to pick you up closer to the entrance I always pick you up from. Closing one exit isn't gonna make it an issue where I pick you up from. you want the to be parked further away where I can't see you coming. And you say you will look for me when you come out. Like who don't you want seeing you getting picked up. Is someone walking you out?
trident_2020 Posted December 1, 2020 Posted December 1, 2020 Just ASK her to clarify why she wants you to park the car there. Seems like the fact that you can't even ask her this simple question is a sign of much deeper problems in the relationship. 1
KaterinaVon Posted December 1, 2020 Posted December 1, 2020 I find it odd that she admits to having a crush on her boss, that’s disrespectful to you, now it’s got you paranoid because they work together. Don’t know why a married woman would say that to her husband. But all the things you’ve listed seem harmless other than her crush 1
Author Mook77 Posted December 1, 2020 Author Posted December 1, 2020 41 minutes ago, trident_2020 said: Just ASK her to clarify why she wants you to park the car there. Seems like the fact that you can't even ask her this simple question is a sign of much deeper problems in the relationship. I asked her. She said cause it will be hard to exit. But doesn't make ssnsey
Author Mook77 Posted December 1, 2020 Author Posted December 1, 2020 Is there a way can draw parking lot exit for y'all to get the pic n post it
Author Mook77 Posted December 1, 2020 Author Posted December 1, 2020 1 minute ago, Mook77 said: Is there a way can draw parking lot exit for y'all to get the pic n post it
trident_2020 Posted December 1, 2020 Posted December 1, 2020 16 minutes ago, Mook77 said: I asked her. She said cause it will be hard to exit. But doesn't make ssnsey So say to her "I don't mean to be dense or thickheaded but I just can't wrap my head around the reasons for parking over there, can you please explain it to me again". This is basic conversation stuff. If you can't do that much and you walk away from her more confused and concerned than before, there's something really wrong here and it's not necessarily an affair. It sounds like you're almost afraid of her.
Author Mook77 Posted December 1, 2020 Author Posted December 1, 2020 12 minutes ago, trident_2020 said: So say to her "I don't mean to be dense or thickheaded but I just can't wrap my head around the reasons for parking over there, can you please explain it to me again". This is basic conversation stuff. If you can't do that much and you walk away from her more confused and concerned than before, there's something really wrong here and it's not necessarily an affair. It sounds like you're almost afraid of her. Lol not afraid. I asked her twice. Same answer. It's going to be hard to exit. I need to show u in a drawing
trident_2020 Posted December 1, 2020 Posted December 1, 2020 Don't show me, show HER. Sit her down at the table with a pencil and paper and work it out.
Bonifidelifelover Posted December 2, 2020 Posted December 2, 2020 On 11/19/2020 at 4:46 PM, gamon said: Not much to go on. From the little I've read I have my decision and it is as follows: Based on the scarce evidence supplied to this court, I rule that you are being overly paranoid and suspicious of your wife for no good reason and you need to stop overthinking it and be more supportive rather than thinking she's banging her boss. Or find more evidence because what you've got is nothing. Court is adjourned! LoL im Confused 2
MaxxNY Posted December 3, 2020 Posted December 3, 2020 You seem like a good guy, perhaps the pickle jar fight was just a way to give herself reasons to justify her actions or make herself feel better. Lay low, keep your eyes and ears open until you know for sure. Accusing her with no concrete proof will just make you look insecure. 1
SRCSRC Posted December 4, 2020 Posted December 4, 2020 Having gone through crap like this, I would blow this up sky high right now. She thinks her boss is cute. He's told her the same. He hangs around her desk. The others wonder why she gets such good treatment from him. All of this information she willing tells you. You can imagine what is really going on. She has told you how she would f*** him in detail. Totally inappropriate and not to be tolerated. Time to have a talk with Mr. Bossy and tell him you are going to go to personnel right now if he doesn't lay off your wife. Your wife has to leave. Get a transfer to another division or find another job. Also, make her take a polygraph test. Way too disrespectful to you, her husband. 1
Author Mook77 Posted December 4, 2020 Author Posted December 4, 2020 Thank u last four posters. I knew something wasnt right even of some here are saying there isn't anything to worry about. she is on phone n when I walk up she turns it upside down.
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