My boyfriend said I am fat

[Millennial]

37 minutes ago, dangerous said:

Question: "Am I fat?"

Option 1: Noooo, you are not, you are very slim"

Option 2: No you are perfect. In fact lets ensure that our whole family, including young children all follow your example, and we eat lots of cr*p, and we will be a matching family.

Option 3: yes you are fat, but I love you anyway.

Which is the better answer?

Variations on the theme of #1 get him laid.

Problem is that the guy isn't bothered about getting laid, therefore saying whatever.

[Wiseman2]

On 11/24/2020 at 8:26 AM, Alwayscats said:

 I asked my boyfriend if he thought I was fat and he said yes  

we struggle to have sex due to him being impotent

His ED is not your fault. This is the type of loser who blames others for his problems. It's best to end it. 

[Millennial]

38 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

It's hard to imagine having successful interpersonal relationships whether professionally or personally while running through a china shop like a bull.

 

Walking on eggshells and dodging trigger warnings like Tom Cruise does laserbeams in Mission Impossible isn't much fun neither.

Some think it was an unfair question, and even outright trickery. They are definately well within their rights to think that.

I don't necessarily given how cliche this particular s*** test is that 12 year old boys know it. Think it's fair to call it common sense.

I have had professional relations managing a large exclusively female team, and it was quite a lot more hard work due to things like this though. Two girls were even fighting over some sort of obesity conversation which became a long term feud. One was seriously very beautiful but didn't like that she was putting on weight, and the other was bragging about dresses...something like that started it. It did my head in.

Consider that male obesity is a jovial sort of funny thing, whereas female obesity is a totalitarian movement.

It's hard work at times to tread very carefully around insecurities. Can be headaches.