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Trying to save a relationship or should I?


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Hi everyone sorry in advance for the long story..

So i am currently having problemes with my partner...(sexual problems) well 3 years ago when we met i was in a broken state of mind..i was told i have an infertility problem and maybe coud never have a child i had broken up with my 6years boyfriend and was basically on a reckless journey.

So i met him and he was sweet and caring and loving and would always be there for me( the problem is that he would only last 5mn max in bed) and i just wanted to be happy so i stayed with him kinda led him on to be happy on the outside ( everyone would say we are the perfect couple) 

What i wanted most in mylife was MY OWN CHILD and  after a couple of months i fell pregnant it was a risky pregnancy and he took care of me.

Till then everything was fine after the baby i started getting frustrated  with the sex and i wasnt feeling to stay but i cannot cheat but my mind wanders so we kept fighting and fighting  i asked him for a break but he says breaks are for teens not us. So it just keeps getting  worse and i told him i dont want him anymore .though i dont want him to go away forever  i like the lifestyles i have with him. But i dont love hjm and dont wanna have sex with him anymore.

Internet could be really mean but makes you realize  things  in a good way.. so some advice please..

PS he is still here cause of the covid airports are closed.

HELP?!!

 

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Do you live together? Focus on co-parenting, since he was more or less a sperm donor/rebound than a BF.

Simply sever ties and work out a visitation/ custody and child support schedule with the courts.

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