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How to approach a guy at work?


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On 11/22/2020 at 6:40 AM, GeorgiaPeach1 said:

Getting involved with someone at work is very risky. Before you rush into this, make sure you don't need this job for financial survival. 

I can attest to that. Met last ex at work went belly up had no choice but to continue working together whilst she dated two other guys in the office..it was a new level of hurt I had never experienced before and trust me I had been cheated on with a even a close friend and this was worse. It's great if it's going good but of it goes south like the above poster said I hope you have another avenue to pursue for work 

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So how did things turn out?  Or did they?  I hope you approach this with caution if you chose to proceed.

 

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I think you were making a big deal of you not wearing any makeup and thinking you weren't looking your best the time when he seem eager to talk to you. Next time if you are not wearing makeup and some guy converses with you just talk to him like no other for real. And what is makeup anyway? Its really just face paint. At some point when you start dating a guy for many months he will most likely see you with no makeup on, you know like when you get out of the shower or wake up from bed. 

I don't know, maybe like you should stop "pursuing" him, there's nothing wrong with chatting with him, but quit thinking about how much you like him, if he's interested he will show you he is, there's nothing wrong with you talking to him at work, as men and women coworkers talk -its common, but its rather silly for you to chase him around when he should be the one making moves on you if he was interested, men will jump mountains and find ways to catch a womans attention.

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