peach302 Posted November 23, 2020 Posted November 23, 2020 55 minutes ago, ccas93 said: This is how the majority of women communicate too. Women i would assume communicate generally better than that. Im never that rude or short with anyone. If my interest is lacking I'll still reply nicely. Eventually will also tell them. Thanks but i don't think we're compatible ..
poppyfields Posted November 23, 2020 Posted November 23, 2020 (edited) 16 minutes ago, peach302 said: Thanks but i don't think we're compatible .. I hope you blocked after that because whenever I was polite like that, all hell would break loose! Some guys said some incredibly nasty things to me... After a few of those, I learned when I wasn't into it anymore, no response was best. Straight to block. Edited November 23, 2020 by poppyfields 1 1
peach302 Posted November 23, 2020 Posted November 23, 2020 (edited) 8 minutes ago, poppyfields said: I hope you blocked after that because whenever I was polite like that, all hell would break loose! Some guys said some incredibly nasty things to me... After a few of those, I learned when I wasn't into it anymore, no response was best. Straight to block. Normally if i say that I've not had any rude responses but usually they try to change my mind which is also annoying lol!. And omg. They're basically confirming that you made the right decision . I think im too nice lol. ( not that you're not) but i feel like im being rude if i block them straight away. Edited November 23, 2020 by peach302
poppyfields Posted November 23, 2020 Posted November 23, 2020 (edited) 1 hour ago, peach302 said: I think im too nice lol. ( not that you're not) but i feel like im being rude if i block them straight away. I used to feel that way too, and if we had actually met in person and he continued to pursue, I might (not always) text something like that, and then block. But before meeting? A few message exchanges? Nah, straight to block will suffice. I mean it could get ridiculous telling so many men we're not compatible or the right fit, or whatever, and then being slammed back with god only knows what. It got exhausting! Some were pleasant enough but not worth the annoyance of the psychos. So straight to block they went, moved on to the next. Edited November 23, 2020 by poppyfields 1
ccas93 Posted November 23, 2020 Posted November 23, 2020 2 hours ago, peach302 said: Women i would assume communicate generally better than that. Im never that rude or short with anyone. If my interest is lacking I'll still reply nicely. Eventually will also tell them. Thanks but i don't think we're compatible .. Well I can tell you, based on being a male and a lot of personal experience, they don't. They're quite often rude, short and sometimes hostile for no reason. 1
Miss Spider Posted November 23, 2020 Posted November 23, 2020 (edited) Well, the average person on a dating app is talking to multiple people at a time. They’re making a mental inventory of who they like the most(gets the high effort messages) all the way to who they like the least. After expending time/mental energy on responding it to someone that they are highly interested in, then comes to people that they are sort of interested in. Last and least, the people they have very little interest in, but aren’t quite ready to burn the bridge. If all the other people that they are interested in and the new people that they match in the future fall through, they will go to them . So when one of these people writes them a thoughtful message about themselves, they suppose they can muster an “awesome” in response several days later. I suggest ignoring and unmatching people who give such responses Edited November 23, 2020 by Shortskirtslonglashes
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