Findingfreedom Posted November 12, 2020 Share Posted November 12, 2020 So long story short... was in a low place and started an affair we fell deeply in love or so I thought at the time.. anyway affair or physical part ended but over the years the texting continued and once and awhile we’d see each other briefly.. always trying to recapture what we once had but we all know that it wasn’t real so how do you recreate that? I went through a deep depression over the end and that’s when push pull started and that hurts even more! You get to a point where you want more and the person either chooses you or doesn’t. Mm had every excuse... money, waiting for kids to leave... blah blah blah so I just mentally ended it in my mind Plus their was some weird stuff also... he would talk about his 18 year old daughter like she was his girlfriend... taking her for outfits and wanting her to get a tattoo on her hip so she can embrace her sexuality!! Wtf?? That’s what did it for me! I finally said something and he got so mad he blocked me !! Lol... damn if I knew that was what it was gonna take I would of done it sooner... anyway btw I’m getting divorced in case your wondering... so I feel I needed to save people some time so they don’t waste 8 years of their life waiting on a mirage that was never real! I know you feel and think yours is different but it’s not. Every single story on here is the same and I wish I’d of listened to people years ago.... so if you want 2021 to be better than 2020 ( and who doesn’t!?) than please block delete or ghost... do WhT you have to regain your life! We only get one!! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Zona Posted November 12, 2020 Share Posted November 12, 2020 Did your husband ever discover you were having an affair? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Findingfreedom Posted November 13, 2020 Author Share Posted November 13, 2020 8 hours ago, Zona said: Did your husband ever discover you were having an affair? Yes he is aware. We have separate lives now. Link to post Share on other sites
anika99 Posted November 13, 2020 Share Posted November 13, 2020 Nice to hear that you got yourself free from this affair and that you are now focused on sorting out your own life. I suspect that when your MM gets over his pout and is feeling the need for validation and attention that he will come looking for you again. I sure hope that you don't let yourself get dragged down into that hole again Link to post Share on other sites
Author Findingfreedom Posted November 14, 2020 Author Share Posted November 14, 2020 Oh he will... that’s what he does... I think it’s sad... Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted December 28, 2020 Share Posted December 28, 2020 On 11/11/2020 at 9:48 PM, Findingfreedom said: I feel I needed to save people some time so they don’t waste 8 years of their life waiting on a mirage that was never real! I know you feel and think yours is different but it’s not. Every single story on here is the same and I wish I’d of listened to people years ago.... so if you want 2021 to be better than 2020 ( and who doesn’t!?) than please block delete or ghost... Excellent advice and insight. Hope 2021 is better. Link to post Share on other sites
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