mark clemson Posted November 14, 2020 Posted November 14, 2020 (edited) 8 hours ago, Alvin85 said: asking if I want to start over as being friends and date to see where it goes I told her I’m not interested in being friends she got upset saying I’m trying to rush things but I feel like she is trying to use me I don’t understand why she just can’t tell me the truth I think she won't tell you the truth simply because she feels it's not in her best interests. IMO you've taught her she can simply manipulate you by not responding firmly to earlier problems. As for remaining friends and "dating", well, while I don't recommend divorce to people who post here, I can say for myself that I'd be saying "FUXX THAT" more or less and probably laughing at the suggestion (if I wasn't too distressed). Nor would I take her back after moving out to "date" some other guy. No way, Jose! I think you should consider therapy to help you get over your unhealthy attachment to this woman. I know this will sound mean, but I think you need to "grow a spine". That is part of the issue here. Sorry if that sounds harsh. Edited November 14, 2020 by mark clemson
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