Stret Posted December 15, 2020 Posted December 15, 2020 What you are describing is a narcissist or a sociopath. She is playing with you because she doesn't have any guilt or conscience. Telling you about her new boyfriend while you are fighting cancer, knowing it will hurt you, using you for playing around and when she needs you... Best advice you can get - block her! Delete her number and delete her from everything in your life. Make sure that she cannot reach you and if she does, ignore her. That is in your own hands. Be strong and just ignore her. Put the ball back into your side of the court and gain some control and self-respect back. You will heal eventually and move on, and then see her for who she really is when you find someone nice and normal to love and to love you back. Best of luck 1
spiderowl Posted December 15, 2020 Posted December 15, 2020 (edited) I am sorry you have been hurt by all this, OP. You can learn from it. As she is harming you, blocking her is a good way of allowing yourself to recover. Whatever the rights or wrongs of what you or she has done while in this confused entanglement, attending to your own own feelings by seeing a good therapist is likely to help you. It will give you someone to share this with and will give you the experience of therapy. I would go so far as to say the experience will make you a better doctor. At times of stress, we can get so tangled up in our own thoughts, trying to make sense of complicated situations or relationships, that it really helps to have that skilled person who can go through it with you. You are a human being like everyone else and equally deserving of that kind of support. Life is about learning. Wouldn’t it be great if we were all born knowing exactly what to do in any situation? A therapist should help you to clear your way through the fog and be able to recover and look forward to a more positive future. Edited December 15, 2020 by spiderowl
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