Author Blobfish777 Posted November 10, 2020 Author Posted November 10, 2020 15 hours ago, Wiseman2 said: Next time stay sober ( universal turn off to drink too much) make it brief like a coffee date. Stop reading PUA garbage about "signs", simply pay attention, stay sober and if they say yes to going out again. That's all you need to do. I will, I’ll get non alcoholic beer next time lmao
Wiseman2 Posted November 10, 2020 Posted November 10, 2020 Was there a hookup/one night stand involved? Either way, live and learn. She lost interest for whatever reason and all you can do is move forward.
Fletch Lives Posted November 10, 2020 Posted November 10, 2020 It does not matter that she threw herself at you on the date. All that matters is what happened last - she said she does not want to date you and is dating someone else. Until you date for awhile and they fall in love with you, things can change at any moment.
elaine567 Posted November 10, 2020 Posted November 10, 2020 On 10/30/2020 at 3:25 PM, Blobfish777 said: So it was basically it was just a one night stand then? A one night stand A one-night stand is an occasion when two people have sex once and never again. I got the impression you were too scared to even touch her, no?
Author Blobfish777 Posted November 10, 2020 Author Posted November 10, 2020 8 hours ago, elaine567 said: A one night stand A one-night stand is an occasion when two people have sex once and never again. I got the impression you were too scared to even touch her, no? No, we touched hugs, arm around the waist, but she wanted to hold hands and kiss I kinda made a joke out of it and got to scared...
Miss Spider Posted November 10, 2020 Posted November 10, 2020 (edited) Opie, please don’t apologize for not being sexual with someone you just met or let anyone convince you that you messed up with some toxically masculine “she thought you were gay because you didn’t make a move” You had your reasons and you weren’t ready. The right woman will respect your feelings on that. Edited November 10, 2020 by Shortskirtslonglashes 1
Author Blobfish777 Posted November 11, 2020 Author Posted November 11, 2020 1 hour ago, Shortskirtslonglashes said: Opie, please don’t apologize for not being sexual with someone you just met or let anyone convince you that you messed up with some toxically masculine “she thought you were gay because you didn’t make a move” You had your reasons and you weren’t ready. The right woman will respect your feelings on that. Thank you for the kind words, I guess it’s time to move on haha. On my next date when the women wants a kiss I’ll give it to them.
basil67 Posted November 11, 2020 Posted November 11, 2020 1 hour ago, Blobfish777 said: Thank you for the kind words, I guess it’s time to move on haha. On my next date when the women wants a kiss I’ll give it to them. Only if you are really into her. Don't ever feel obliged to kiss someone who you don't want to kiss. 1
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