javastars Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 A guy I work with always seemed to get nervous around me, tell me I looked hot, ect. Finally 5months ago I let him know I was into him. He had been outta a year long relationship for 3 months at that point. Over the last 5 months I have kept a very professional work relationship as I am planning on moving onto another job very soon but we have definitely seen each other several times late at night. He calls, emails, ect. However recently when I told him I hope we can hang out at somepoint when it's not a midnight obvious booty call he said he was interested in hanging but didn't want a relationship or anything serious but he highlighted he was really didn't want us to end up not friends or complicate things at work. I absolutely understand and respect his concerns for work (even though we don't work in the same offices) however... now I wonder after he said that is it EVEN WORTH Hanging out or ever hooking up again????? I wrote him back I never had mentioned a relationship but I was just getting tired of the same old late night stuff and didn't want to make things totally weird as some random booty call. For now I'm just going on with my ****, he can come find me if he wants. I just hate that guys immediately think girls wanting to hang out means relationship stuff when I just don't want to feel equal to some chic guys get at a bar. haha Thoughts? I don't wanna be a bitch. I want to get laid. Don't wanna be a booty call slut. haha Have fun with this one.
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