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I'm chatting with someone online and we've been having a normal conversation and she lists some of the same hobbies as me and we've been talking about those. I went back and looked at her main profile pic and it's her sitting with her back against the passenger door of what appears to be a convertible Bentley with her legs open facing you and the center console covering her privates there. Her shirt is also somewhat open and shows some cleavage.

All her other pictures or "normal" dating profile pics with her at different activities or vacation type photos. Her bio also says that she likes being active and has some activities.

In looking at that profile picture again I'm kind of nervous about her judgement. What do you think? 

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31 minutes ago, max3732 said:

In looking at that profile picture again I'm kind of nervous about her judgement. What do you think? 

I think she probably gets a lot of attention from men who don't care about her judgment!  

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1 hour ago, max3732 said:

I'm chatting with someone online and we've been having a normal conversation

what appears to be a convertible Bentley with her legs open facing you and the center console covering her privates there. Her shirt is also somewhat open and shows some cleavage.

Meet asap to rule out scammers.  If someone won't meet within a week or two of initiating contact., stop chatting with them.

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I think she sounds hot.  If she's the real deal, then she's probably not the kind of chick for you as you are seemingly looking for the perfect little wallflower raised on conservative family values.

A girl like this, if she's not a fake account, would you be able to handle her?

Dude, just ask her on a date (if you can date in your area).  If she says yes, then get on that horse, son!  Make Daddy proud! 🐎

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On 10/17/2020 at 12:09 PM, CautiouslyOptimistic said:

I think she probably gets a lot of attention from men who don't care about her judgment!  

And who are willing to pay her hourly rate .💃

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If it seems too good to be true it probably is.

My experience of these sorts of ladies they have endless choice so decide if you are someone someone like that might find attractive, if yes then go for it, if not then decide if it may be a scam/ a hourly date at an hourly rate.

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On 10/17/2020 at 11:37 AM, max3732 said:

I'm chatting with someone online and we've been having a normal conversation and she lists some of the same hobbies as me and we've been talking about those. I went back and looked at her main profile pic and it's her sitting with her back against the passenger door of what appears to be a convertible Bentley with her legs open facing you and the center console covering her privates there. Her shirt is also somewhat open and shows some cleavage.

All her other pictures or "normal" dating profile pics with her at different activities or vacation type photos. Her bio also says that she likes being active and has some activities.

In looking at that profile picture again I'm kind of nervous about her judgement. What do you think? 

Either she's for real, and on the site for an ego boost, and not to actually meet in person...or...its a fake profile.

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On 10/17/2020 at 11:37 AM, max3732 said:

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In looking at that profile picture again I'm kind of nervous about her judgement. What do you think? 

I'm thinking if this is the lead photo it gets men to look at her profile (hey we all find ways to compete) and she may be really fun and wealthy if that is her car.  She could also mean it as a joke / tease.

I do think it is important that you wonder about her judgment here, as in a way it is a compatibility of values related to judgments on how one presents themselves.  To me, not much different than women wondering about men with a shirtless picture of them with a dead fish.

Now for me, it is the Bentley that would give me pause, don't get me wrong they drive very nice, but they are almost a poster child for materialism these days. :) 

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My vote is that it's a fake dating profile. 

The only way for you to find out is to ask her to meet you in person for a date. Why haven't you called her on the phone yet? 

 

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Sounds like a hooker.

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4 hours ago, Watercolors said:

My vote is that it's a fake dating profile. 

The only way for you to find out is to ask her to meet you in person for a date. Why haven't you called her on the phone yet? 

 

We've been chatting on the app. I'm afraid to give her my number in case it's some kind of scammer. She has pics that were taken locally. In fact she has a lot at this fitness studio and I'm starting to wondering if she's on the app promoting the place.

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Just now, max3732 said:

We've been chatting on the app. I'm afraid to give her my number in case it's some kind of scammer. She has pics that were taken locally. In fact she has a lot at this fitness studio and I'm starting to wondering if she's on the app promoting the place.

Ooooh. Maybe she's trolling dating websites to promote her gym that she manages? Still, until you meet her in person or talk to her on the phone you don't know who it is you're texting.

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4 hours ago, SumGuy said:

I'm thinking if this is the lead photo it gets men to look at her profile (hey we all find ways to compete) and she may be really fun and wealthy if that is her car.  She could also mean it as a joke / tease.

I do think it is important that you wonder about her judgment here, as in a way it is a compatibility of values related to judgments on how one presents themselves.  To me, not much different than women wondering about men with a shirtless picture of them with a dead fish.

Now for me, it is the Bentley that would give me pause, don't get me wrong they drive very nice, but they are almost a poster child for materialism these days. :) 

Not to change the topic but I don't understand who buys a Bentley. Like you said they drive very nice, but they are much more expensive than a MB S-class, BMW 7 series, Audi A8, etc. Also, Bentley doesn't stand behind their cars. To put a warranty on a used one it had to have been examined every year and the it cost more than a regular car or something like that. Plus the features on the car were worse than a comparable car from a "normal" company.

Back to dating profiles, I've seen other pics with women and cars and I assumed that they probably don't own the exotic car they're having their picture taken with. When I was 1st swiping through I just gave a cursory glance at her face and the profile info (age, distance, not a smoker, etc) and the other pics before swiping right. Looking back at the profile pic I couldn't believe what I saw. 

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22 minutes ago, max3732 said:

Not to change the topic but I don't understand who buys a Bentley.

Not the kind of person who poses in it like she did.  

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Hahah . No It’s like oh he has a one shirtless, headless pic , but otherwise he’s normal. Oh he’s perfectly decent guy except that one pic of him with his face in some tiddies. If you put a little bit of crap in a milkshake it’s a crap milkshake,  not a half crap milkshake

 

Pass on her 

 

 

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On 10/20/2020 at 9:08 AM, max3732 said:

Not to change the topic but I don't understand who buys a Bentley. Like you said they drive very nice, but they are much more expensive than a MB S-class, BMW 7 series, Audi A8, etc. Also, Bentley doesn't stand behind their cars. To put a warranty on a used one it had to have been examined every year and the it cost more than a regular car or something like that. Plus the features on the car were worse than a comparable car from a "normal" company.

Back to dating profiles, I've seen other pics with women and cars and I assumed that they probably don't own the exotic car they're having their picture taken with. When I was 1st swiping through I just gave a cursory glance at her face and the profile info (age, distance, not a smoker, etc) and the other pics before swiping right. Looking back at the profile pic I couldn't believe what I saw. 

The same people who buy Bentleys are the same people who buy Rolls Royce.  Luxo barges don't do it for me, either. 

But hey, for the silver-haired plutocrats, these cars (along with their Ferrari, Lambo, Aston and McLaren) are the ultimate status symbol.

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On 10/21/2020 at 3:03 AM, Cookiesandough said:

Hahah . No It’s like oh he has a one shirtless, headless pic , but otherwise he’s normal. Oh he’s perfectly decent guy except that one pic of him with his face in some tiddies. If you put a little bit of crap in a milkshake it’s a crap milkshake,  not a half crap milkshake

 

Pass on her 

 

 

I bet that crap milkshake still brings many boys to the yard, though! 😉

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On 10/19/2020 at 6:38 PM, max3732 said:

When I was 1st swiping through... 

There's a lot of spammers, catfish and escorts on free cheap hookup sites you are swiping through.

You need to have a better dating portfolio. That means a good profile and pics on some quality (paid) dating apps as well as real life opportunities such as clubs, groups, classes, volunteering, etc.

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If she's got a Bentley, she's going to be high maintenance and expensive. Are you ready to bankroll her? 

My intuition tells me she's a scammer or trouble. I'd cut contact and find an average, more believable woman.

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On 10/22/2020 at 8:28 AM, Fletch Lives said:

If she's got a Bentley, she's going to be high maintenance and expensive. Are you ready to bankroll her? 

My intuition tells me she's a scammer or trouble. I'd cut contact and find an average, more believable woman.

I think that's what I'm going to do

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