jenaipher Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 What can you say about an 18 year old person who had never been in a serious relationship and therefore has never been kissed? I'm very outgoing, friendly, smart, and ambitious so what the hell is the problem? Do guys find it intimidating for a girl to be really comfotable and confident in herself? I realize I'm not exactly the sexiest and prettiest girl there but how can I see these other girls who are dirty and ugly have boyfriends? Is there a punishment for wanting to be successful? What can I do?
jesusfist Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 find a guy you like, become friends with him, ask him out on a date or see if he asks you out etc. guys these days ( i am a guy) i find are less likely to ask a girl out or approach one we fancy because of self esteem problems or just being unsure if shes actually interested. you said you very out going and friendly, if you act super friendly too everyone all the guys you encounter will in my opinion think thats just how you are, that your not actually interested in them beyond a normal friendship and wont attempt to take it any further. Actually make your feelings known and go after what you want rather than sitting around waiting for it happen
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