Kisar Posted October 12, 2005 Posted October 12, 2005 Well after almost three months of literally dying my husband returned home. He is refusing therapy and does not have a plan..yet wants to be in the home. I want him there but I do feel that I have suffered tooo much not to get answeres and for someone not to have a plan. He will not talk to me about the situation? says that it creates a bad atmosphere if everything is okay...It's not okay. I am scared to give him an ultimatum because he may just leave again. I need suggestions...because I am still hurting. He does'nt even touch me...and he lacks affection big time...Is he still seeing another woman? Do you think I can be strong enough to say I need answers if not bye bye? I still need a whole lot of help and support. Please help me community.
Scott S Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 Well, that's a step in the right direction, albeit a small one. For now, (as we've said earlier) YOU should be in counseling, for your own well-being. You have a lot of your own issues to resolve first. Once you have a better handle on that, you'll be in a better position to start trying to fix the marriage. When & if he decides the time is right, he'll accept therapy. You really cannot force him to do so before then, & giving him an ultimatum may very well push him out again, as you fear. The only thing you can really do is take each day one at a time. We are here for you, & we do care about you!
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