boblob Posted September 29, 2020 Posted September 29, 2020 (edited) I tried dating site, to check if somebody interests of me. Nobody interests of me. I even sent messages - got 0 responce. Is this because 'woman can sense virgin'? Do I even need to put efforts to myself, as I am already bored of a job? Ir I can wait 3 more years and become 'wizard' - as indicated at virginity bar. What else? Edited September 29, 2020 by boblob
schlumpy Posted September 29, 2020 Posted September 29, 2020 Look into becoming a monk and one with the universe. Seems to me you lean heavily towards the spiritual world. 1
Author boblob Posted September 29, 2020 Author Posted September 29, 2020 (edited) I am myself feelling 'shadow banned' amongst people several years already. They only talk with me if they have no options ( i.e. banking services, being consultant ). Althought conversation seems always cold, or it is faked to be friendly. Edited September 29, 2020 by boblob
d0nnivain Posted September 29, 2020 Posted September 29, 2020 2 hours ago, boblob said: Do I even need to put efforts to myself, as I am already bored of a job? Yes you need to put in effort. Nobody wants to date an uninteresting messy blob. You need good hygiene & grooming. Your clothes need to fit correctly & not be old, worn & sloppy. You should have combed hair that has some sort of style that flatters your features. You have to smile & look people in the eye when speaking to them. You have to project interest in them too but not in a creepy way. It helps if you can carry on a conversation. 2
CaliforniaGirl Posted September 29, 2020 Posted September 29, 2020 You have posted here before. You need to start thinking of women as people. You even say "nothing" above. You have said you've been angry at women for not "giving" you sex from the age of 11 and therefore you don't want to have sex with the woman you end up marrying. These are deep issues and I believe they absolutely must be showing. Even the way write (and that's what's showing on a dating profile) is scary and offputting to a woman. You need to address your issues first, before trying to date. You won't ever be happy unless you do. 2
mortensorchid Posted September 30, 2020 Posted September 30, 2020 Maybe it's about your appearance and how you dress and present yourself to others. I remember years ago I was at this party and this guy comes into the room. As he and I were the only ones there I said hello and tried to strike up a conversation but it was like talking to a brick wall. Just yes/no answers, turning his head away, and clearly not interested in talking to me. I figured "ah well" and someone said that gjy Bob (whatever his name was) can never meet or has any success with women. I saw immediately why, he couldn't say "hi how are you" to even a casual stranger like me. Women like men who are secure with themselves. Fact. Maybe this is what you are lacking?
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