Kvin Posted October 12, 2005 Posted October 12, 2005 I find myself repeating the same things over and over again with a girl that I've been talking to for quite some time. I don't really know what girls like to talk about. Could anybody help me?
Author Kvin Posted October 12, 2005 Author Posted October 12, 2005 I'm also one of those guys who is afraid to say anything in terms of, telling a girl how I feel, asking for numbers, dates, etc.
whichwayisup Posted October 12, 2005 Posted October 12, 2005 Practice in front of the mirror! As stupid as it sounds, it works! You need some self confidence, that's all. Focus on what you want to say to her and then look yourself in eye from your reflection and keep on doing that until you feel comfy. When you see her, it's okay to be shy. Don't worry about that part of it as you'll have more confidence in yourself and she'll see that in you. Ask her about her interests, hobbies etc. Music, movies, sports, etc... Hope this helps!
willpparker Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 I'm in the same situation. Shy, no confidence ... I can talk easily to girls that I am not interested in. But there is this girl that I am interest in at work. I can manage short chats with her: - how are you doing - whats happening on the weekend / what happened on the weekend - talk about any movie watched /videos \ tv shows - talk about work, are u busy ? - brothers, sisters, holidays etc - and the usual quick hellos as we pass each other in the hallway Try to expand on these stuff. See where the conversation leads to. But I can't keeping talking about these stuff. It gets boring after awhile. Thats why I sometimes avoid her, to save the topics for next time. I don't know if she has a bf. None of my conversation has picked it up, but never 100% sure. I have asked her a few times out for lunch, but for some reason her other friends come along or she is busy. Have not had a one one yet. And even if that happens how can I get something more about it (like a date but don't want to say its a date in case she says no. [i work on the same floor and want to avoid any embarrising situations])
Author Kvin Posted October 14, 2005 Author Posted October 14, 2005 Thats is almost my exact situation. I can talk to other girls perfectly, and with confidence. However, with this girl I can barely manage a 3 minute conversation, it's odd.
newbby Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 practise on her, and if it fails you will have more experience with the next one and so on....
Pendawn Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 Watch the news, read magazines and newspapers and ask her opinion on things you read. even if it's stupid Showbiz gossip. The secret to winning a girl is aksing her what She thinks - about everything! Ask her about her family and friends, great vacations she's had, what she likes ot eat. It coudl be if the conversations are drying up, she's not giving you much to work on in return.
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