Bub24 Posted October 12, 2005 Posted October 12, 2005 Ok.. I've written on here before. This pertains to my last poset about my ex and I. I was confused on his feelings and now I pretty much now he loves me but isn't "in love" with me. So now what do I do? Do I still keep in contact with him or do I just stop and let him realize what is gone? I am so afraid that if we stop talking that he will totally forget about me! I DON'T want that to happen at all. I am head over heels for this guy. I do believe with all my heart I'm suppose to end up with him. And if I stop talking to him how is he going to remember me? I don't know.. I feel like I'm drowning and there is no one to help me.
legrtova Posted October 12, 2005 Posted October 12, 2005 Yeah, love hurts. I wish you the best of luck. If it doesn't work out, we are here for you. I, personally, have found comfort on LS and some great advice. It has helped to get through the bumps in the road... Best wishes!
J dub Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 If you have to worry about him forgetting about you if you stop talking, he clearly doesnt love you like you deserve. You should not have to "remind" someone of yourself so they dont forget you -- unless you enjoy that type of insecurity, I suggest you do NC and come to LS as often as needed to get support. You, like everyone else, deserves to be loved completely. Although you dont want to think about other people right now, I promise you there is someone out there who WILL be IN LOVE with you...who will make you feel like a million bucks, who will sweep you off your feet. Dont hold on to a relationship that is clearly over, it only prevents you from meeting someone who is RIGHT for you. I used the, "You can either have all of me (relationship) or none" tactic on my bf when he dumped me after three years. He walked away from me, and I was devestated but knew that if he couldnt love me, someone else will. Pick yourself up and respect the abundance of people out there -- there are SO many people that it just doesnt make sense to remain with someone you are not happy with. And, perhaps, you'll have what happened to me, happen to you -- he'll come back to you, full force.
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