Wiseman2 Posted October 2, 2020 Posted October 2, 2020 4 minutes ago, Haydn said: @Piddygave me his number straight away.
Piddy Posted October 2, 2020 Posted October 2, 2020 5 minutes ago, Haydn said: @Piddygave me his number straight away. We'll, you are one of the few who know what I actually look like. 1
Haydn Posted October 2, 2020 Posted October 2, 2020 (edited) 4 hours ago, Piddy said: We'll, you are one of the few who know what I actually look like. You`re knockout mate. A real `Bobby Dazzler` Edited October 2, 2020 by Haydn 1
Blind-Sided Posted October 28, 2020 Posted October 28, 2020 On 9/13/2020 at 9:59 AM, elaine567 said: HE could be a SHE or gay or dating or happily married, or a confirmed bachelor or just not interested in meeting anyone from an anonymous forum. Also he may be highly embarrassed about being singled out publicly. A PM message may have answered some of those questions before you got so invested. Yep.... this exactly. As to some of the points above... I know my ex found me here, and I didn't deny it. For a while I held back on my posts... but then I thought... "Why?". But the real pisser was when she decided to start posting. But here again... I just kept posting. The point I'm trying to make is... this is a place to be private, and to reach out to someone may end your stay here. 1
Commongoal123 Posted November 2, 2020 Posted November 2, 2020 Considering this is a forum full of people processing really intense emotions... it may not be the healthiest place to fall in love. Think trauma bonding. 1
LivingWaterPlease Posted November 2, 2020 Posted November 2, 2020 (edited) There were two posters who began a relationship here a few years ago. I noticed the attraction he had for her, watched him move in on her and the R heat up. It ended up exploding in a bad way on the forum at least partly. Probably irl, too. One was separated and considering/working on possibly reconciling with the ex and the other had been treated badly by someone they were dating. I've never gotten a crush on anyone here and wouldn't be able to continue posting if I did, I think. An ex did find me on here years ago and I quit posting for quite awhile because of it. Edited November 2, 2020 by LivingWaterPlease Remove first sentence
Chilli Posted November 2, 2020 Posted November 2, 2020 Nope , haven't seen anyone here even close to what l'd go for, place is like a date site write up , just keep reading. l do have two very special female friends from here though neither are here anymore but we're still in touch all the time although one has personal stuff and we haven't talked in awhile. She could well have been actually had of l been single and her situation was different she was just the rarity l'd go for and l often wonder how she's going , good things for her l hope.
Atwood Posted November 2, 2020 Posted November 2, 2020 Forum love happens. I know two couples who met on forums that are both getting married next year. It's just as nuanced and complex as real relationships, with the added challenge of online anonymity at first. It's a challenge but not impossible.
gamon Posted November 7, 2020 Posted November 7, 2020 Yes there are some success stories about people who met on relationship forums. There are also lifelong smokers who live well into their 90s and never have a heart attack or develop emphysema.
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